Hi Eiluj!
Nice to meet you - my DH doesn't love to eat out, but he is a meat and potatoes kind of guy and I have a hard time saying no - I love steak and I love potatoes!
Regardless, I'm hoping that by me changing my eating habits, he'll come around and decide to give it a go as well.

I hope that you can have some success with your DH and find a happy medium.
I'm doing the calorie counting thing too - it really keeps my mind where it needs to be.
Welcome and I hope I see you around the boards!