I'm tempus aka Ohtempus and i'm OVERWEIGHT. So overweight that I went to go see more birth control and the doc talked more about how I 'put on a couple' then 'oh your vagina is fine'. So I decided to go on a diet. I've also decided that diets don't usually work like turning thr Tv on. You can't do it and then stop doing it without there being some repercussions! So here I am asking for some support. Yeah, I got my family, but they have been there forever and they have seen my ups and many many downs. So i'm thinking I wanna met people that share the same DOWNS as me.
Anyways if anyone ever want to talk my AIM is on my profile or hit me up email style [email protected]
You're right. Traditional diet mentalities do not work. We cannot eat well only until we get down to our goal. We have to keep going. This has to be a "forever" change. But! That doesn't mean it has to be all at once... it can be one step at a time.
We all have ups & downs, and I've found this site to be very supportive through both. We've been there... we understand.
OHTEMPUS . . . so glad you found us, Chickie . . . and wow do you ever have the right attitude, girl -- this has got to be something you do for the rest of your life. A diet (nasty 4 letter word) is something temporary; we hve to make a lifestyle change.
BTW, , although I'm old enough to be your grandmother, I the Spice Girls, too.
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, although I'm old enough to be your grandmother, I 
the Spice Girls, too. 
