Hey Gwen, and
If support is what you're missing, you will DEFINITELY find it here...so many people on the same mission that you are.
What sort of plan are you following? We have forums for most healthy ways of eating. You also may want to visit the "30-somethings" forum, where they have daily chats and a pretty consistent support group going.
Wherever you post, just keep posting and keep moving toward your goals. Can't wait to get to know you better!