Hi everyone... I'm finally getting caught up on posts and am working from home today. I've had too many travel days the past two weeks, and I really need a weekend. I had a hard time sleeping last night, and really just need a sleep reboot to feel myself again. Stepped on the scale this morning and it was a scary number. I think it was the little bite of bread here, the tiny bite of someone's dessert there... I just didn't have the willpower this trip. Not sure what was going on. That, and the lack of sleep, which is never my friend when it comes to my weight.
I don't think I'll be back in my weight range tomorrow, but I'm allowing myself a date night tomorrow regardless. I haven't been to dinner with hubby in a long time, so we are going out.
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Originally Posted by Pauley
Another snow day in Seattle! No school and too much snow for me to even 4x4 to the office. Yippee! Working virtual for a few hours then taking the rest of the day off to go sledding and snowshoeing.
Wow. Enjoy the snow days... I saw pics and it looked really icy. That looks dangerous to me!
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Originally Posted by Determinedat47
It is 20 degrees below zero here this morning- man that makes me want some homemade bread and stew! Am having a great on plan week. Been 100% on plan since Saturday and the scale is inching down. Doing phase 1. Funny how hard it is to get your mind wrapped arouned that after being off. But there is no stopping now- plan on getting to 150 and then phasing off again and I need to find a way to incorporate excersise into my life with something that I can stick with. I live in such a rural area, there are not alot of options for "classes". Have a great day everyone.
Way to go! Yes, yes, yes... I do so well when I have classes that I've signed up for and someone is expecting me to be there. It must be harder in a rural area. We can keep you honest, though. Just make sure that you are accountable to us.
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Originally Posted by leganegan
oye, Saturday since I was 2lbs below goal. I splurged all weekend. Why do I do this to myself? I always hate how I feel come the night before starting phase one. It's like I don't know how to have one free day and then eat phase 1/2 the next day. My pants feel tight and I feel bloated this week, so I know I am retaining a lot. So here I go again! I will phase 1/2 it for 10 days and then phase 3 it. It just makes me feel better. I will not start this cycle over and over again. I never let me self truly enjoy a healthy maintenance, I end up with phase 3, then pig out and phase 1 it. I do not want myself to get too tired of this strictness, I am doing this to myself. I just need to control portions when maintain and not go all out for more than 1 day a week.
Does anyone else do that to themselve? have one piece of cake or some guacamole and then feel that, since they blew it they might as well enjoy the whole weekend?
I sometimes do this, but then I give myself a break and realize that it's not me, it's the carbs that are addictive and making me that way. When I avoid carbs (even for a day), I feel much better and much more in control. Don't beat yourself up, but DO realize that you can control how you feel by controlling what you eat.
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Originally Posted by capricious
Legan & Determined- This is one of the hardest parts of reprogramming our responses. To not get caught up in a free for all even when it's 'allowed'. In the maintaining your weight forever web site that I posted awhile ago there was a very good article about refeeding versus bingeing. I always considered the free day/ phase 1 day to be practice for 'learning how to fall and pick yourself up again'. It was incredibly comforting to me to know that if I lost control I could regain it the next day.
Yes, this is the most important thing... get back on the wagon!
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Originally Posted by jennydoodle
I have found the best solution for me is to only use free days on special occasions. I try to stick to strict days when I can (which is usually during the week, as it is more structured) and then let myself have some leeway on the weekends when sharing a dessert or having a glass of wine is likely to happen. If I know I am going to have that dessert or something, I make sure the rest of my day is on point and then have that one indulgence.
I do not like the feeling of the cramming it all in on one day and I usually feel like crap the next day after over eating, so I find that this is a more moderate approach. I also feel like it is a more "normal" way to eat. The way naturally thin and healthy people eat. They eat what they want, in moderation and don't go overboard. I feel like a normal, healthy person eating this way.
I know that this may not work for everyone, but it is what I found works for me.
I have to go all out, otherwise I have a hard time the next day. I find myself saying things like "well, I only cheated a little bit yesterday, so this won't hurt." If I go all out, my thinking is more along the lines of "that will have to wait until next Saturday... I had enough fun yesterday."
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Originally Posted by Maile
Pauley: I am stuck at home and waiting to see if school is cancelled. We were sent home yesterday due to solid ice and snow. It is a mess. Hope you enjoy your sledding and your break from your office.
I am also striving for normal healthy eating and controlling the free days. One thing I noticed is, that if I eat too much..even healthy foods and feel too full..then I can start feeling like I am fat..or that I am going to gain my weight back..It is irrational, but somehow I must trigger into the past. Anyway, I am happiest when I am full and also in control.
Jenny: good job on maintaining and moderation!
Cap: I am going to have to look up that site again about refeeding. I am hoping Pixel is Ok and just busy at work.
Yep, just busy.
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Originally Posted by capricious
Pauley- Are you still phase 1ing? How was your snow day?
I have been so happy to have my treadmill back from out of storage now that I finally have enough room for it again. Just in time for this brutal weather... But I think I may do Zumba today just for a change of pace
I've heard such great things about Zumba, I need to check this out...