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In the last couple weeks I started writing "personals" on various threads and as I did this I noticed something that concerns me. The names people call themselves! I have to admit I almost did this myself. I started to use " Fat Fairy" because that was how I felt.
I won't point out the exact names I'm talking about- don't want to put anybody on the spot. I just want you to be aware that when you describe & title yourself with negative names-your body-your inner self hears you " You want to be Fat Fairy? OK,you said that's who you are so,,, I'll be sure to keep you fat so you can live up to your name. This is something I've been working on as I lose weight-being positive about myself- describing myself as I want to be.
Also be careful with how you follow the words " I am..." Those are very powerful words.
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I am... a Christian. I believe my life is determined by God and not words I say into the universe. I don't think the universe cares whether I'm fat or not, or whether or not I live up to a name I called myself. I don't think I'm going to be fat because I said, "Fat!" or that saying, "Thin!" will make me thin. "The Secret," and the "Laws of Attraction," just don't ring true to me. I worked in banks all my life and said things like, "I'm going to need $100,000 in twenties for Friday." It didn't make me rich.
I certainly don't think my sub-conscious is going to ignore the intent of my sentences and just focus on a single word like a child on a playground saying, "Ha Ha! You said gunky!"
Positive thinking is fine in it's place, but not if it turns into a lazy way to avoid action. We can't just sit in a chair eating candy and thinking thin. We have to put forth the effort.
I think it has much more to do with how much I eat and God can help me with that. Thankfully, he doesn't play mean spirited word games.