[want2bskine]

Ya know the funny thing is, we aren't young. Im in my late 30s, he is in his 40s, and I think this lady is a few years yonger than me. We got it all straight. He said that's just the way she is...but he got it straight when he went back to work and she said she was sorry and she didn't mean to offend me. Still I didn't like it. I know for sure I would have not done it. It makes me wonder though if she would still tell him at work...like love ya. I know for sure he is very much in love with me, and we do have a good relationship, just don't like some women's attitudes.

[want2bskine]

Sacha I agree with you. I didn't mean honest to that point..ya know where you cut each other down, lol. I mean honest in a marriage to keep communication open, and about the more serious stuff. And wow, if at my heaviest my husband said honestly honey you look fat as a cow...wow..that wouldn't be good at all. I would be deeply hurt. So no, I don't mean THAT honest lol.

Originally Posted by sacha

One does not need to insult their partner in order to be completely honest. Really, after reading that thread where you and your partner seem to verbally abuse each other as if it's normal, I'm not surprised to hear the above. Geez.

- I think another outfit looks better
- Here are some things I would like to try in order to have more fun
- When you do X then yes, I do think people may get the impression of being feminine
- Let's cook X together or let's try a class and see if we can improve

i am never going to hear the end of that, am i?

so much for finding support.