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Originally Posted by northcarolina RN
How long were you together before you got married?
My DH and I dated 4 months before we got engaged and married 10 months after we started dating. People found it so weird that we would get married so quick....but 10 years and we are still together. I often wonder about other marriages.
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DH and I dated for 7 months before we got engaged and got married almost (but not quite) a year after we met. I had a lot of family members asking if I was pregnant or something, but nope. We had both been in long-term relationships before and I think that helped us get pretty good at figuring out what we needed/wanted in a relationship. And honestly, the long-term relationships I had been in (one was 2 years, the other was 4 years)...when I look back on those I can't help but wonder what I was thinking! I am so glad things ended with those guys. Anyway, we are coming up on our 6th wedding anniversary in May.
My sister and brother-in-law only dated for either 3 or 6 months before getting engaged, and they've been married for 17 years now.
And finally, I remember hearing on Dr. Phil once, years ago, that the length of the courtship does not predict the length of a marriage.