I'm muscular as well—I have been lifting heavy weights for years—but I still prefer myself lighter than 129. There is just so much that goes into what the ideal weight for a person may be. At 129 I'm a size 2 (by today's standards), but I want even more muscle definition than I have at that weight. I'm liking 111, but I think I want to see 108. I'm another who has curves even at a smaller size. They aren't going away. But that said, I've seen women my height who weigh more than I used to and I think they look lovely.
I've never weighed more than 129. That seems to be where my body likes to stay. But it's been easy for me to lose weight this time, and was two years ago when I last tried. I can lose about two pounds, sometimes more, a week eating between 1,750 and 2,000 calories a day, so I know I really shouldn't be setting myself up for failure by going low on the scale. I don't have to worry about being dissatisfied long-term with my calorie intake. But all the same the issue for me
has been keeping it off. I like to eat, and can easily eat more than 2,000 if I let myself. I can eat more than friends who are twice my weight and more. For a time I can get away with that, but not forever. So last time I wasn't vigilant and kept saying that one more day of eating too much wouldn't hurt me. It turns out, eating too much catches up with you.

I think, though, that this time I've learned to eat right and maintain. I've gone about things in a different way this time.