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Originally Posted by babygrant
I just hate all this anxiety. No matter what I do, as soon as my cycle rolls around the anxiety spikes and stays till I ovulate. Doctor won't
Check my hormones since I am only 30. Hard to believe 2 years ago I lived life without a fear.
My suggestion is find another doctor to treat your anxiety. It took me years but I finally found a second doctor because the doctor I had had since age 5 just wasn't listening. He utterly failed me on my thyroid disease because despite having every symptom he refused to test my thyroid- a simple blood test! I even offered to pay cash for it. But my Gyno (a different doc) suggested I get a thyroid test and ta-da, I was hypothyroid just like I had suspected.
After blowing a disc out in my lower back and deciding I didn't want surgery or to be on pain meds for life I started seeing a naturopathic doctor who is also an acupuncturist. She has changed my life, literally. I've lost 30 lbs under her care, my back pain is ZERO on most days, my anxiety is under control (I think a lot of my anxiety was related to untreated hypothyroidism), my thyroid is under control, she keeps an eye on my labs and runs new bloodwork every 6 months.
A good doctor is your greatest ally. Your current doc isn't helping you, so please find one who will! No doctor should ignore anxiety symptoms. Anxiety builds on itself.
In the meantime, do things that will help you to control your anxiety. Things that have helped me are: hypnosis, massage, meditation, prayer, exercise, stretching, yoga, acupuncture, some herbs. And of course, Rx medication. I took Buspar for a while which was pretty effective as an anti-anxiety med, and I still take valium for acute symptoms if I have it. Learn breathing techniques that you can use to calm yourself down. Sometimes when I'm having a panic attack I just pick up the phone and call someone- just the act of talking to someone can short circuit the panic attack. Avoid stimulants like caffeine, and eat a healthy diet so you're getting adequate amounts of nutrients. Consider supplementing magnesium and calcium, because magnesium can help calm you.
Dr. Andrew Weil came out with a book recently you might like- "Spontaneous Happiness". Anxiety and depression go hand it hand, and he has dietary and supplementation suggestions that might help your condition.
Good luck. You CAN see improvement. I used to be so anxiety ridden that I was agorophobic and couldn't even leave my house for 3 months. I had debilitating panic attacks that would have me running to the emergency room certain I was dying. I now live a normal life, with symptoms only popping up every now and then and to be honest I've learned to embrace it when it happens because I feel that having anxiety disorder makes me a better and more empathetic person. Prior to having anxiety disorder I was pretty unsympathetic to people that suffered from depression or anxiety or other mental disorders and thought they should just "snap out of it". Now I know better, and I think it makes me a better person.