thanks for all of your helpful responses!!
i dont really have an issue with salt, i really dont like it all that much, but i also check the few processed things i eat for sodium. after thinking about it a lot last night i came to the conclusion that im probably not excersizing like i should, i havent stepped it up really since i started. so i think i will start really focusing on that.
and yeah the jeans are a little loose, and i probably did wear them too tight before. i have the nasty little problem of not seeing what my body really looks like no matter what my weight, and i really didnt think i was big at all until i saw a picture, so i was probably wearing my clothes too tight thinking i looked pretty damn good.