[HealthyMeWannabe]

Probably the worst commect I've ever received was from my 3 year old. I know she didn't mean it in a hurtful way, but it stung nonetheless. A few days ago she said, "Mommy, you have a REALLY BIG BUTT!!!!!" Now I know toddlers are just being observant, but sheesh! That was so not cool. But it did give me motivation to stick with my plan, which is working so far.

I've always been a big girl too. I really, really want to lose this weight and look smokin' hot. Then I want to go to a high school reunion and shock people who have never, ever seen me thin. Personally, that will be SO FUN!!!!!

[mariamherrera]

Originally Posted by uselessknowledge

I bet you are very confident! I love hearing about things like this, because I tend to assume that guys wouldn't be interested by default. An attractive bigger woman with a lot of confidence is often a catch, I've noticed.

I used to be very confident! I don't have an issue being plus size and proud but I do have a big problem being where I'm at now over 300 lbs is just ridiculous! But I've learned the key to change is also acceptance I accept who and what I am right now and I am beautiful no matter what Size I am! But I feel better, healthier and ten times more confident when at a more reasonable size! every one should be confident every one is beautiful in their own way!