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  • Hello Goldens

    I have been giggling and snorking about all the clothing malfunction stories. So welcome over the last 12 hours as I am confined to the couch. I got a sub for pool tonight but I will be going there (hopefully). I promised everyone some of my famous cheesecake. Ds is going to help me make them this morning so I will be baking while sitting I serve it with my own raspberry sauce that I preserve each summer.

    I was feeling sorry for myself this morning at about 6am. (This is why I don't take pain meds unless I have to - I get morose). So I called my buddy Kenny and told him that I can't go fishing on friday because I won't be able to climb into the drift boat. In typical guy fashion, he let loose with a string of profanities, telling me that all I have to do is sit in the front of the boat and that I dont "need a good knee to fish!" Then he said, "besides, you are so little now I'm just gonna lift you up and plant you in the front of the boat! You weigh a **** of a lot less than my wife!" After telling me to stop whining, he said he would see me on friday... Sometimes I just love having guys for buddies. He is so funny! I guarantee that he wouldn't have considered trying to lift me a year ago - even if he is a big guy!

    Karen3, yup, you routinely start us off on some thread that is good for the entire group. It's that sense of humor of yours.... So sorry about your friend and sorry about the transfer. That is rotten. If she had been given a little more time, hospice probably would have been a better place but not a move at the last like that. It is always hard to lose people but this time of year is even worse. An old friend lost his 5 year battle with luekemia this week. My first thought was how sad that it happened now....

    Freda, 5 1/2 shoe? wow, that is really tiny. I am so glad that you had a great birthday filled with family. That is the best.

    Zoe, I think the ornaments are a wonderful idea! Those are special things that people keep forever. I loved the idea of the music jam. My old friend (in heaven now) and I used to take our kids camping. We had a bag with all those types of instruments and we would jam out around the campfire. I get warm feelings whenever I see the "music bag" that is still hanging in my closet. You reminded me that I need to get it out with my little gs's.

    Isabella, bless you for taking care of seniors. I was thinking last night how much we all contribute to our worlds. Every one of us is involved in work and professional activities that bring something to others. After all, we are women, right?

    Marie, I think the stained glass pieces are wonderful gifts. Grandma used to say that she thought none of us needed one more quilt or potholder from her. I TREASURE everything she ever made me. Things made with our own hands last forever and are so important.

    Nancy, it was good to hear from you. I agree with Freda, don't stress over the food. It is the people - and I have never seen a holiday dinner without too much food. No one will go hungry.

    Gayle, I love how you do activites like spirograph with your little ones. Like Rosey, you are creating memories that will last forever.

    Misty, Nice that you are starting to feel at home here. I ahve only been here a few short months but I feel like I have known these women forever! Like Karen3 said, the support here is invaluable for EVERYTHING. How are you spending the holidays?

    Donna, I'll bet that you made those guy's day at the training. I love how you just acted like it was perfectly normal. That is so YOU! LOL

    Zoe, I am so sorry about your sister. I wish I had a solution. Maybe she just needs to burrow during this first season. I seem to recall that you are planning to go spend some time with her when you retire. That will be good. Hopefully, she will change here mind and celebrate the holiday.

    CaddyK, so sorry about the house complications.... The only upside now is that you will not be packing before Christmas so you can enjoy the holiday... I am loving the pictures of the diva girls in their christmas finery.

    Koala, enjoy your trip.

    Chickadee, like Freda, I am intrigued with the corn cob therapy. Please tell us more. My (somewhat dotty but lovable) autie decided a few years ago that she would be thrifty and use some of the whole dried corn for the "rice bags" that she was making for christmas gifts. Have you ever put dried corn in the microwave? BOOOOOM! It was so funny.... We never told her, the dear lady.

    I am sure that I am missing people and I am sorry. Must get cheesecake in the oven...

    Rie

  • I hope that this doesn't violate the decision to avoid politics on the GG thread but here goes:

    I would like to celebrate the fact that many, many soldiers are comming home from Iraq and will be home with their families for the holidays.

    I would like to show gratitude and empathy for those families who will celebrate with only the picture of a brave soldier because they will not be comming home again

    I would like to show empathy and support for those who's bodies will never be the same because of their service. Their spirit and their sacrifice more than makes up for it. Their injuries cannot take away from their strength.

    A couple of my relatives are comming home. One will never be home again. A couple are in Afganistan, one will never have full use of his right arm, one has a closed head injury that is causing her many problems. I love them all and I am honored.

    The other day I recieved the resignation letter of a young army wife that works for me who is going to move back to California to be with her husband who is comming home. She appologized to me because she has been with us less than a year - she told us that it would be 2 years. I responded that I would do my best to fill her position with a veteran or another military spouse. We can all put signs or ribbons on our cars, or whatever. In this season, lets donate to military causes or just shake the hands of a person in uniform and tell them thanks.

    Again, sorry if this is political

    Rie
  • Hi all. Haven't had much time to check in. Did go back and read some recent posts. Seems everyone is very busy too!

    I hope everyone has a great week and is enjoying the upcoming Holiday season. Decorated the tree with DGD yesterday. She had a riot! Then this morning I got a call at work from her (on her mom's cell phone), she just wanted to tell me she loves me! So sweet! (she's 3)

    Hoping to be able to check in again later.
  • Hi GG. I'm still in the hospital. The surgery went well. I'm still having one problem that I hope will be worked out. Hope to be home soon.
  • Hi Carol Sue,

    I'm so glad the surgery is OVER and that you're able to communicate with your GG buddies from the hospital! Please get rested up and hope you resolve your problem and can come home soon!
  • Another cold day but perhaps a bit warmer than the last two. Our youngest dd's furnace is down ..she lives in No Cal but it's cold there too but they are managing and waiting for it to be fixed. Sure thankful for our furnace my dh installed several years ago! It will be strange to be home for the winter this year but I think I will enjoy it. Not so sure about dh though.

    Dh continues to work on the bathroom floor. Taking a long time to get it all dried out but think soon we'll be ready to bring out the shower and see what's under it. So far haven't seen any rot, just dampness. Still stinks! So we are sharing one bathroom now and doing ok...we were remembering how we only had one bathroom with us for many years and even with two kids for a while before we moved here, so it's no big deal. Plus he washes up, shaves etc still in his little bathroom so only comes to mine to use toilet and shower.

    One more gift to buy (for oldest son) and I can't for the life of me decide what to buy him! Today I texted his gf asking what he can use or might want. Maybe she can help me. Then all I need to do is wrap a few gifts and I'm done with gifts.

    We're ready to go car shopping...not sure we have enough cash but we won't buy on the first trip, so will soon find out. We have read all the tips we could ...since we usually do this no oftener than every ten years, it's a big deal for us! I was ready to go today but dh was too tired. I told him we could do one dealership a day...

    Slmn - glad surgery over and hoping for a smooth and quick recovery!

    Sutter - What a sweet little gd! That's a great age! Know how good that must have made you feel!

    Rie - No matter our politics, I think most of us want to stand behind our troops! They don't give the orders, they are handed down to them and they are only doing their duty. May God bless and protect them and I'm so glad many will be home for the holidays! Hope your knee is better soon!

    Bobbi - Receipe sounds really yummy!

    Karen31 - Are you talking about sharp pin-like pains by jolts? Or are you talking about jerks? What medication are you taking? Some strong pain meds cause jerks but I was thinking you are on antibiotics? Sorry, I haven't had time to read all the past posts.

    Isabella - loved the panty hose story! Yes, I remember garter belts...sexy I guess but I never liked them. Used to love panty hose but then my belly got so big they rolled down. Too tight to fall off me of course, but uncomforable so now I just go bare legged or wear pants. In winter it's pants or long skirts and boots.

    Freda/Marie - No word on the house. Our agent at the bank called but she didn't know about the offer until I mentioned it and then she looked and saw the emails from the realtor, but couldn't tell me anything and said to just send in the usual stuff each month (bank statements, income statements as we get them). Hope this doesn't drag on too long, but more and more I realize she is simply the "screen" person so people like me won't be calling and pestering them all the time. She said when it's settled we will get a letter

    Gotta get something done around here...you all have a great day!
  • Isabella, I'm trying to figure out how you inconspicuously pull those things back up since you are no longer a pantyhose version.

    Zoe, what if you flew your sister to your house? Cheaper and perhaps might help. I'm now worried about your sister as well. And of course we believe you're still eating on plan. You are a stubborn woman and won't give in to temptation unless you're no longer in competition with the calorie god.


    Freda, I'm like you - I don't worry about any party planning. Why bother? It is what it is and if someone doesn't like the dust balls (aka fur balls) in my house, then they can just move along down the road.Big girl wrapping paper is not santa claus-y. It is elegant and perhaps like a foil paper. I'm just spouting here...

    Most of my wardrobe malfunctions are because of the TOM and not predicting what it will do. Besides that, I have one embarrassing one that is funny looking back. Did you all have the obnoxious one piece gym uniforms with a strap of elastic in the back to give it shape? I had the torture of wearing those stupid things and when the girls developed, the snaps wouldn't stay closed. Zap and they all undid and flashed the world.

    KarenFL, I'm so sorry about your friend. That will be tough for her DDs for a long time to come during the holiday season.

    Rie, I give 10 points to Kenny. Enjoy fishing on Friday. You deserve it. ROFLMAO at the corn bags in the microwave. If honoring veterans is political then count me in on that side of the politics. Well written and I'm thrilled that your employee's spouse is coming home a year early. That's awesome.

    Misti, at least your co-worker(?) let you know. You could have gone the whole day with it inside out...

    Connie, you just gotta love granddaughters. They are so sweet.

    Yay, we heard from Carol Sue. That answers a prayer. Now she just needs her one problem fixed and get on home from the dreaded hospital.

    Mary, "when it's settled you'll get a letter"? Huh? What about the poor buyer that has an offer on a house an response? Or a sweet couple that tried to help their son? Sometimes I'm appalled at how we humans treat each other. They should be telling you one way or another whether the short sale is approved.

    Not much going on. Back at work and working diligently except the last twenty minutes.
    Marie
  • Evening all...I just had to say thank you Rie....I worked for years with Nam vets and they had so many problems beyond agent orange because they has to sneak back into this country. I cry every time I see people applauding service people at airports. This is not political. This about a fine generation of young people who have served us. Again Thank you Rie.

    Carol Sue....just shut up girl and stand still so we can all give you cyber hugs. Welcome home chickie!

    Mary...It is an antibiotic that gives me electrical jolts. But only first 24hrs. It's weird sensation like when you fall of the edge of the world as you start to doze off......I wouldn't have realized it did that except I restarted the darn stuff twice this week.

    Marie....Those orantments are beautiful and I'd hang one year round.

    Wednesday night....they say you have got to see Survivor tonight....supposed be surprising. hmmmmmm

    My new cleaning girls start tomorrow....hopeful they will be okay. I just can't push the vaccum and move stuff around. Hey am tired of this stuff and want my old self back.

    karen3

    ps Bobbi...baked at 350? How Long?
  • Hi Everyone,

    FINALLY got out of the house today! After 8 days of being pretty much stuck in my house, I NEEDED to get out.

    I actually feel pretty good. Tomorrow evening is an Alumni dinner that I organized for the college where I used to work. I am REALLY happy to get to see some of my former students.

    Take care,

    Lynn
  • Morning'...say good morning to piggy here.........I hate myself this morning and the scale is way up. Christmas party at nursing home last night and you'd think everything was calorie free by the way I pigged out. Did someone start a challenge? If not, I'm starting one after Christmas to lose the fat that's accumulated around my waist. The only reason my jeans still fit is because they are all low rise, I have to use a belt to keep them from sliding off my rear end.
    KarenFla...yes, 350 for 25-30 minutes.


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    ps Bobbi...baked at 350? How Long?
  • Good morning GG's,

    One day down ~ two more to go. Last night when I got out of work ~ the weather was so weird. December ~ 74* at 6pm and so muggy. Funny to think that I was out and about doing my errands in my shirt sleeves ~ no jacket needed. I didn't mind that ~ but I could do with out that muggy feeling.

    Bobbi ~ you are not alone ~ I need some kind of after Christmas thing. I have been indulging in those calorie free cookies and such that the dr's and others bring around at Christmas. I eat right some of the time ~ but too much sampling I'm afraid won't balance out the better choices. I guess I should be thinking at least my choices aren't bad 100% of the time.

    Off to work now. Hope you all have a nice day.

    Take care
  • Last time someone worked on my cp, they put in Google Chrome. I decided I don't like it anymore. What do you all have, Bing, Google, MSN?
  • Oboy. Another day. Ten days until Christmas. I can hardly believe it. Seems like it just couldn’t possibly have been a year ago that it was Christmas 2010. Feels more like a few months. Oh, well, time flies when you’re having fun, or so they say. I’m guessing it just flies, period.

    STILL tired. Yawning. Too much excitement lately. One kiddo or the other stops in every night now, it seems. They don’t stay terribly late – just ‘til 9:00 or so, but then I have to bathe, get things ready for morning and so forth, and I’m lucky if I make it into the bed by 10. Then I read for 10 or 15 minutes…sometimes longer…and then I’m up at 5:30. I seem to vaguely hear dh snoring at intervals through the night. Enough to disturb, but not fully awaken me. Good motivation, though, for getting my clothes finished up and out of the guest bedroom so I can crawl back in there and get a few nights of heavenly uninterrupted sleep.

    Oh, Marie, we’d love for my sis to come up and spend Christmas with us. I wouldn’t offer to pay her way, though. She inherited everything that my parents left, which was considerable. My dad died first, and left everything to my mother. My mother and I never got along, and she made her feelings perfectly clear when she made out her will in my sister’s favor. It included large blocks of stock in a variety of oil companies – Getty, Exxon, BP, and a huge number of other assets including property and bank/brokerage accounts. My sister and I never talk about the way that played out, but I think we both know that my dad, had he lived, would’ve done things very differently. I don’t begrudge her the money, but I do begrudge the way her daughter – the one whose way she paid through nurse’s training, and who then worked for part of a week before deciding that they just expect too much of nurses and gave it up as a bad mistake – needs my sister’s help four or five times a year with paying her overdue mortgage payments, or replacing vehicles for her and her oafish and lazy husband, or buying new appliances for their house…etc., etc….the list goes on ad infinitum…and I can just imagine my father, who worked hard for everything he ever got (as have I) rolling around in his grave at the thought of all his hard-earned money going to support that useless niece of mine. So, yes, my sister is welcome – and encouraged – to join us any time she likes, but at her own expense. I don’t mean to sound harsh, but I’m not about to pay so that there’ll be more to dole out to the niece. I AM worried about my sister, though, and hopeful that she’ll manage to get past her grief at some point and move forward with her own life.

    Val, I don’t think that appreciating service men and women is “too political”. They represent us and defend our interests without regard for our particular political views, after all. Besides, I’m not entirely sure that something political won’t slip out of me from time to time, and I guess I’ll just have to apologize in advance if anything I say offends anybody. I figure that we’re here, sitting around the table together – all women who have lived long enough to speak our minds. If we can’t do that, we might as well be sitting around with a bunch of strangers…or worse…MEN! Y’all know I’m mouthy, so that’s not likely to go away anytime soon. I’ll try to contain myself, but may not always succeed. Fair warning.

    Glad to hear from you, Carol Sue. Update us when you can. Get well.

    I know I’m not addressing most of you, but I AM thinking of you and sending lots of warm and friendly wishes your way.

    Still on plan. Amazing grace.

    Z

  • KarenFL, I hope those cleaning girls work out for you. Do keep your goodies under lock and key.

    Lynn, I'm glad you're feeling a bit better. Enjoy your Alumni dinner.

    Bobbi, I've loved the Holiday Challenge that several of us are using. I have every intention of starting (or participating in) a 2012 challenge. I want my downward trend to continue and my challenge friends have been key to my loss since Thanksgiving.

    Gayle, I'm envious of your warm weather. Winter is here in my neck of the wood. Almost no snow (we got about 1/16" last night so I can no longer say no snow. But it is COLD.

    Zoe, I think time just flies too. Fun or not. And wowza on your dear sweet mama, bless her former heart. That was mean, pure and simple. I wouldn't pay your sister's way either but probably for different reasons than you. If my parents did that to any of my siblings, I would have given my siblings their share. What a sad story with your sister and your niece. To say the least, you are far much rich than either of them.

    It sure is quiet here this morning. Nothing new here either so I'll get back to work.
    Marie
  • PT/Zoe - I'm with Marie.... if I inherited and the sibs were disowned, I'd share. What's wrong with your sister, anyway????????

    Nuthin' going on here. I'm at work. It's quiet. I'm blah, blah, and bored! GM, sister, and I are doing our little Christmas this afternoon. I'm looking forward to that. Otherwise, that's it! Onward...