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alaskanlaughter 08-17-2012 11:48 AM

the scale always goes down for me right at the end of TOM...today i'm at 190-point-something so that means i'm maintaining a 40-pound loss...just need to keep losing some more

had my last early morning workout this morning....when school starts next week i work a split shift, 7-8 a.m. and then 12-6 p.m....so i will be working out around 10 a.m. after teenager goes to high school

today i'm finishing up all the loose ends in getting my program up and running for the start of school...a thousand little details that make the program successful...i still have no staff :(...tonight we're going to the fights and i have a cute outfit...im a little nervous about that lol

Chubbygirl253 08-17-2012 12:05 PM

I am so close to meeting my August goal a week early. I just need to lose 4 more lbs. I think I can do that by next Thursday's weigh-in if I really work at it. I know I can do it!
Today is the 1st day in a looong loooooong time that I woke up and said I don't want to exercise. I don't wanna go to the Y. I'd rather go back to bed. But I'm not giving in to that. I have a goal to conquer!

Thousandsunny 08-17-2012 01:08 PM

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Originally Posted by alaskanlaughter (Post 4440460)
today i'm finishing up all the loose ends in getting my program up and running for the start of school...a thousand little details that make the program successful..

I know how you feel, next week is when we get into school to start setting up and I'm stressing already. It's about time to head over to Staples buy about $300 in school supplies. :dizzy:


I hit the gym yesterday, amazed I made myself go! I did 30 minutes legs (on the bike) and then abs and arms. I'm tired but it's worth it. :carrot:

Wolfshadow 08-17-2012 09:32 PM

So time for me to check in.

Kiiinda frustrated this week. I went down to 302 Friday last week and then Tuesday came around and I was 305.. And I've been working out more than ever before so, wtf?!

I think part of it was I over-did it on the low carb ice cream and ice pops... they're low carb.. for A serving, not 2 or 3 at a time... So that was my bad. My sweet tooth got the better of me.

Anyway, today we went out to Ponderosa for my mom's birthday (it's tomorrow) and I'm really proud of the fact that I could have, like my mom, loaded up on sweets and sugars and said what the heck, but I didn't. I stayed low-carb and had shrimp, steak, and chicken, and then some taco beef with cheese sause. All low-carb and all OK.

I'm still learning to not eat just because I'm bored. I'm still kinda full from earlier but it's probably good to eat a small item so my metabolism keeps going. Maybe a small tuna salad...

Anyway, swam Monday, walked Monday, Tuesday I swam and walked as well. Wednesday my sister decided she had to come over to be babysat so I didn't get to go to the pool, and I was really exhausted from running all over with her (we walked about 3/4ths of a mile to the local big-lots) so I didn't do my normal near-3-miles walk that day. Swam yesterday but no walk because I had an upset stomach! UGH! Then today my mom and I hung out for her birthday and I treated her to lunch and all and she complained that my sister and brother in law costed her 40 bucks for her birthday while I actually spent money on her, considering I'm on unemployment and my sis and her hubby make 50,000 a year combined. Oh well, I guess it's nice to hear in her own way that I was being considerate and she had a good time.

Adopted two kitties out today!! YAY! Will be taking the dogs with me tonight for our walk as normal and get back into the swing of things.

While my mom and I were out we hit Wal-Mart in Clay, NY, not our normal one in Cicero.. Picked up new tires for my bike and I'm pretttty sure my mom's gonna get me a bike helmet for Christmas... But also, I FOUND A SWIM CAP ON CLEARANCE *AND* a nose plug and ear plugs! I am SO going to the pool tomorrow to swim and try them out! YAY!

Alright, speak to you fine ladies tomorrow! ^_^

TatterScoops 08-18-2012 10:19 AM

Hi guys, I'm pretty new to the board but would love to connect with other 30s warriors here.

My name is Maureen and I'm 33. I've been doing Chalean Extreme for almost a month now. Will finish the Burn Phase next week. So that's what I did today, Burn It Off (high intensity workout for 27 minutes) then a stretching exercise too.

Have a great weekend :)

Wolfshadow 08-18-2012 10:44 PM

@TatterScoops - Welcome! ^_^ Is Chalean kinda like Zumba?

TatterScoops 08-18-2012 11:11 PM

Thank you Wolfshadow, Chalean Extreme is different than Zumba. It uses a lot of strength training using dumbbells or bands but also have days where we do cardio. I've tried Turbo Fire but found the pivoting too hard to do :)

Chubbygirl253 08-19-2012 12:11 AM

Sat is my day off from the y and regimented exercise but I still try to do some activity. Today my mama and I took my 2 yr nephew to the ocean. Got about 90 mins of walking in sand and playing in the freezing cold waves. But he had an absolute blast! It was a good day, and the kiddo slept the whole 2 hour drive home which was much better than the non-stop Are-we-there-yets during the drive there.

Thousandsunny 08-19-2012 10:31 AM

@Chubbygirl253: The ocean is a great workout and 90 minutes?! I'd be asleep the whole two hour ride right along with the little one.

As for me, I am off on a bike ride today, hopefully. I didn't do anything yesterday so I'm a bit peeved with myself but I won't let one day become "Oh I'll start back Monday" like I usually do. :o

Late-date Edit: Did 17 miles on the bike path; Google calculated 1900 calories burned, haha! Went out for dinner after and had gluten free pizza with spinach and black olives and splurged on a diet soda. All in all, felt good about the pizza. It was also, literally, the only thing I had to eat today save 1 egg and a piece of toast (poor planing on our parts.) So, I am okay with it! The only thing I should have done is moderated how much pizza I ate because I am coming home sans leftovers. Oh well, I'm still pretty happy with the day!

westcoast rosa 08-19-2012 09:50 PM

I had a great day today! I ran 5k today....WITHOUT STOPPING!! My new runners and mp3 player are wonderful additions to my routine. Then this afternoon my partner, daughter and I all went on a hike and then played in the ocean. Hope you all had a wonderful Sunday!

Chubbygirl253 08-19-2012 11:35 PM

my exercise is going good. Yesterday was my day off from exercising at the Y but my mama and I took my 2-yr-old nephew Aiden to the ocean. Spent 90 mins walking on sand and playing in the surf/wave jumping. We had so much fun!

Today was back to the Y and my usual routine of machines and classes.

Today was PiYo cardio, the really hard class I tried last Sunday. I'm so proud of myself for going back today in addition to:
30mins strength training
45mins elliptical w/arms
35mins cross trainer
10mins rowing machine
5 mins stair stepper machine---HARD!!! I'll get better, it was my 1st time

All in all I got 2.5 hrs cardio and .5 hrs strength training today. I'm sore but in the good way.

alaskanlaughter 08-20-2012 01:16 AM

im just writing and posting because i keep things in my head too long...ive had such sinus problems and sore throat this weekend and i know it's because i spent two days inhaling dust in my classroom...and sometimes at night, when i'm home alone with everything done, i just get overwhelmed with sadness and i'm not sure where it even comes from

im stressed because i start the winter program at my school tomorrow...on my own, with no staff, with new students, with no computer hooked up and a ton of things that i still need to do...i'm sad that i wont be seeing the students that i worked with all summer because they are at another school...im still getting used to the idea that my baby boy is going off to high school...i dont think i even LOOK like a high school mom :( but some days i just feel so very very old

on top of the motorcycle accident this week that took someone's life...today we learned that someone from our village committed suicide last night :( i didnt know him but he was the BIL of someone that i know very well...and i know he was out last night looking for his BIL only to find him dead...and i know that family is grieving and i dont have any way to reach any of them in the village...and i want so badly to reach out to them and i cant :(

i dont know whats wrong with me to be so very very sad tonight and emotional....or if i'm even making any sense

hsmomof3 08-20-2012 07:51 PM

Alaskanlaughter, I am so sorry to hear about all the loss recently in your life. I pray that you can find a peace and stay positive about something. There has to be something.

I, too, have a high-schooler this year. Although, he is my oldest it still doesn't feel like he should be this old. Because I am not that old.

Well, anyway, I hiked on Saturday and even if I didn't keep up with the kids the entire way, I still hung in there and finished the whole hike without dying.
Today was back to walking/power-walking but, I am starting to have some really bad pain in my heel. I have a check-up with a new doctor on Wednesday so maybe I will ask him about it if it doesn't feel better by then. I will also be weighed that day....UGH!

Chubbygirl253 08-20-2012 08:16 PM

alaskanlaughter- I'm so sorry! Things are hard right now but it will get better. keep your head up. :hug: prayers are coming your way!

I got 3 hours of cardio in today:
15 mins rowing machine
5 mins stair stepping machine (feels like 5 hours!)
45 mins elliptical
45 mins recumbent cross trainer machine
45 mins yoga
25 mins c25k training walking/jogging in intervals

And I'm super duper proud of myself because I moved up to week 2 of c25k today and I did it! I wasn't sure I could, but I did! I'm so awesome!

Wolfshadow 08-20-2012 10:35 PM

Hey guys, time for me to check in.

So this Saturday was my mom's birthday and we've literally been celebrating all weekend. I didn't walk most of the week, but I was swimming since it was the last week the pool's open. Now it's time to find my unemployment and food stamps awards letters and see if I can get a membership at the Y.

So Saturday I went swimming from 2 until 4:15. I did a TON of laps instead of the normal lighter workout, and man were my legs feeling it. I then walked .5 miles to my mom's with her gifts. Didn't do my normal walk that night which I was kinda upset at myself over. We went to Denny's and I caved and decided to cheat since everybody else was getting what they wanted. Had the strawberry / white chocolate pancake puppies and a 'midwestern' sandwhich which is pot roast, mashed potatos and gravy, and fries on a bun. So bad for you but SO good. Plus they gave mashed potatos as a side... So full.

Yesterday, Sunday was the party with my grandma and other extended family, and Grandma of course, had to say something snarky about how much I ate (which was easily less than my BIL whom has one of those metabolisms where he gets to eat everything he wants and doesn't gain a pound)..

Anyway, did my walk last night and took me about an hour and a half to do.. Also did some lifts with my pair of 3 pound barbells. 5 Below sells 5 pound ones for 5 bucks each, I'll probably be investing in a pair soon.

Today, I finally got my bike fixed! Took a 3 mile bikeride, lasted about an hour. MAN my legs are feeling it!! I worked muscles I didn't even think I had!

Weighed myself and thankfully I only gained 1.8 pounds from the 2 day cheat event, which shouldn't be too hard to take back off. My mom said she was proud of me for 'not letting the numbers get to me' and that the weight will come back off. D'aww.

Anyway, plan on taking my walk again but I'm debating if it'll be a shorter version since my legs are kinda sore from my bike ride or if I'll do the whole nearly 3-mile walk. Talk to you ladies later!

mortonpixie 08-21-2012 04:39 PM

Just a check in ladies - you are all doing so well!!

I'm a home schooler and school started last week - I also took on a brother/sister duo in daycare for 2 days a week...well, they brought a gift with them called Hand Foot & Mouth Disease which sounds really scary but is just a virus...gross. I closed the daycare for today and tomorrow and my 3yo is so miserable he hasn't eaten since Saturday. :( Sores in his mouth and down his throat - poor, poor baby.

Anyhow - too busy to read all the posts right now, just got back from the gym...lower body weights and a 1000yd swim. I lost another pound last week, so that's great...slow and steady I suppose. Gotta fly off and make supper, I need to clean my bike tonight so I can ride in the morning.

KEEP UP THE GREAT WORK!!!!

Chubbygirl253 08-21-2012 04:45 PM

I'm tired today. Only did 90 mins of cardio and 30 mins strength training. I have 1 billion things to do before I leave tomorrow to see my hunny. He lives 2+ hrs away.

hsmomof3 08-21-2012 10:04 PM

I had my 6 month old niece here today and didn't have a stroller. I had planned to walk while she slept and have my oldest son keep an eye on her but, she woke up everytime I put her down. So, I sat on my arse holding her through 3 different naps today. I was uber-grumpy by the time dinner came around and I was suprised at how snappy I was with my family.
I felt like I had a whole day without accomplishing anything worth value.

After dinner I had to walk, if nothing else for my own sanity. I walked twice as far as normal but, it was still only 1 walk compared to 3. Disappointed:?:

Tomorrow is my birthday and my doctor appointment/weigh-in. Hoping it goes well enough that my mood is not ruined for my entire birthday.

Keep up the good work girls. You are inspiring me to not quit. ~ Thanks.

Thousandsunny 08-22-2012 08:53 AM

Hey ladies, just checking in! Off the exercise wagon a bit but still eating well. I haven't had time to get to the gym and it bums me out but such is life. I have to clean my apartment tonight so maybe I'll try to get some cardio going when I do that! :carrot:

westcoast rosa 08-22-2012 05:37 PM

Last night I went for a 5k run and tonight I am going on a dinner hike (we are bringing a sushi picnic with us)!

mortonpixie 08-22-2012 06:35 PM

Oooh, westcoastrosa, a dinner hike and sushi picnic sounds awesome!!

thousandsunny - cleaning can definitely be a workout!

hsmomof3 -HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! I know about the "accomplishing nothing" thing with babies. I took a newborn in the daycare in March...seems I get little to nothing done on the days that he;s here. But holding and caring for a child is a noble effort in itself. Dirt and chores and even our own intentions will always be there...babes will not. :hug:

Quick :wave: to you all!! Went out and rode my bike on the highways this morning...it was beautiful weather and i was happy to be out on the peaceful roads. I took some photos that I will post on my blog later. Sad, really - in 30 miles of riding I only stopped to take 2 pictures. I need to get my priorities straight!

Off to church for our AWANA program's kick off! I'm with the 3rd and 4th graders again this year. YOUTH ON THE MARCH!!

Thousandsunny 08-22-2012 09:15 PM

@Westcoast rosa: That sounds wicked fun, I hope it was awesome.

@mortonpixie: I cleaned quite a bit so I hope it counts! My laundry room is 3 flights of stairs down and I carried the clothes and such. Hope it did at least something, haha.

Happy Wednesday night to you all. :D

Thistleberry 08-23-2012 01:46 PM

Ladies, I'm feeling so frustrated right now. I could really use some encouragement. The scale, she's been in a snit and I can't for the life of me figure out why. At first I thought it was just because I worked out a lot this weekend. I had some great lifting sessions in which I was making gains right, left and center, I zumba-d, I walked, I ran, I swam. Thing is, I don't typically hold on to exercise induced water weight this long.
The only unusual thing I've done is that I got a tetanus shot on Monday. Could that make you retain? I haven't a clue.

I know that I'm being irrational about this. I've had far worse stalls/inexplicable gains that lasted for far longer. I think it's just that I was so excited to be in the 140s and was there for a good week and then suddenly my body threw me right back into the 150s. And once again I'm looking at a whopping 1 pound lost for the month when I've worked SO hard for more.

Yesterday I got home from work late and tried to talk myself out of taking my jog. "Why should I when it won't do a damn bit of good?" I asked. Whined, really. There was a liberal amount of mental whining going on. "Because you like to do it! Because it would feel good! Because it would reduce some of that stress, you cranky little sloth." The whiny part of me conceded this was true, but I couldn't help feeling a little defeated because I was sure the scale would be up at next weigh-in and probably because of it.
Sure enough, this morning it was.

The whiny, cranky sloth side isn't supposed to be right. :(

I'm supposed to lift tonight and I still plan to do it but the whiny, cranky sloth side is very much wondering if it's worth it.

Thanks for letting me vent.

Thistleberry 08-25-2012 10:12 AM

Have I killed the thread? I don't think I've ever seen it sit this long. :lol:

I'm much improved from my last post. We all have down days, you know? My workout that night was probably the best I've had a in a long time. You know how some times it all just feels like it comes together? You just hit that exact right mood, the music is perfect, and you just feel IT (whatever it is) from the top of your head to the tips of your toes? It was one of those. I was psyched. I took yesterday off and then hit it again early this morning. I'm a little sad this stage of NROLFW is over but excited to start the next at the beginning of the month.

I'd really like to try something different during my week break from lifting but I'm not sure what to do. I'll have to think on that.

westcoast rosa 08-25-2012 12:31 PM

Glad you're in better spirits, thistleberry!

I did my 5k run on Thursday, had a rest day yesterday and today we are going on a big family walk and hitting up the Fringe Theatre Festival!!

Tomorrow I am going to do the 8k race route. I know I will have to walk some of it, but I would like to have a baseline time that I can improve upon. Wish me luck!

Wolfshadow 08-25-2012 11:53 PM

@Thistleberry - Y'gotta keep in mind, we're women. And as we go through weight loss, our bodies retain water, especially since we're on the 30-somethings board, that means most of us still have the TOM. (I don't, but once I get below 270 that'll come back.... NOT looking forward to it....) Furthermore! We're all exercising, and muscle does indeed weigh more than fat. Some of us are also bigger-built than others. Not all of us are going to look like the Victoria's Secret gals. I know for a fact I'm not, I can't wrap my fingers 'round my wrist.. which means I am stocky-built and big-boned. I'll be lucky if I get into the 160s, though 140 is my goal. You also have to keep in mind that some of us just, aren't made to get to 140, 130, we're meant to be 150 or so. It's about your health, not just the number on the scale... Plus, any pound lost, is a pound lost.

Take me for example. I weighed myself yesterday and I went DOWN, finally, for the first time in two weeks (I had hit 302 but then my mom's bday happened and I shot up to 304, and then 306...) and then yesterday, after a VERY extensive workout at the Y, I finally did it, and hit the 200s! 299.0!!! ...and then I weighed myself again so my mom could see, and it said 299.8! WTF, right?

First thing today, I had eaten at Ponderosa with mom, stayed on Atkins and only ate the sugar-free, etc, the meats, the eggs, the cheeses. Weighed myself as soon as we got home, just for kicks. 303. I don't think I ate 4 pounds of food in one sitting! I had a plate and a half at the breakfast buffet, and an omelet!! We're talking less than 12 hours since the 299 weigh-in! And it seems to be, I'll bobble. But as long as I'm consistently going down, the gain here or there is fine, as long as it comes back off eventually. You're doing the right thing by working out. Your body is adjusting, replacing fat with muscle, and you're SO close to goal! These last 20 or so pounds are going to be the HARDEST TO LOSE ever!!! Do NOT give up! Slow and steady wins the race!

alaskanlaughter 08-26-2012 12:05 AM

ive had an insanely busy week this week, getting the school program going, new students that i dont know yet, my own kids in school etc etc....ive managed to go run every day of the work week between my split shift schedule at school...i was doing 1.6 miles total and trying for 0.8 mile intervals...it's killing me...its SO SO hard on my lungs even with Advair AND an inhaler, i get side stitches, i get back cramps near my lungs...once i cramped near my lung so bad i had to actually stop and i can usually push myself through things

only 3 times out of 5 did i manage to push out two intervals of 0.8 miles...i finished the distance but not in the intervals like i'd planned the other times...i think i might change it up and go for four intervals of half miles each next week for 2 miles ran total...i also do some fast walking afterwards on the treadmill as a prolonged cooldown...

the scale has peeked at 188 (!! lowest weight ever!) and has stayed between 189-192 and i expected a bigger jump up than that...normally directly after TOM it's the lowest of the month, then jumping up many pounds and hovering there for the rest of the month

today i walked two miles in a Beat the Odds cancer fundraiser walk....LOTS of people there...i walked with a friend from work who just had a baby...the pace was much slower than i'd like but it was an awesome time and a great walk through the rainforest trail...even got some running socks at the end and another event tee-shirt LOL

then i tackled bills, errands, shopping etc and finally crashed around 5 p.m. for a nap...i'm just now finishing dinner and its 8 p.m., much later than normal for dinner

also my eating has been much lower calories this week because i dont eat much in the mornings before my run....after my run i go back to work and ive been so busy i've barely eaten there either...then i come home at 6 p.m. and eat dinner lol

Wolfshadow 08-26-2012 12:25 AM

Ok, so anyway, I need to check in.

Mom's birthday was like, a 2 day eating freeday Ate a lot. Too much, but unlike my mom who gained 5 pounds from the event, me and my working out, I only gained 2. Was up to 306 on the 20th. Of course, even though my BIL and his brother (.....what do I call that? BIL#2?!) ate FAR more than I did.. (I think my BIL, the one actually married to my sis, Charlie, ate nearly all the salami offered..! But he's got one of those metabolisms where he can eat whatever the heck he wants and never needs to worry. Since he moved to America for my sister, he's gained... A WHOLE 10 POUNDS over the 4 years he's been here from his native El Salvador! Lucky brat! and his little brother, BIL#2, Christian, IS THE SAME WAY. LUCKY BRATS, both of them! XP ) Bah, anyway, starting to ramble. But anyway, so because I'm the fat one, my grandma had to make SOME snarky remark about how much I ate.. She has these unspoken rules that she puts out TONS of food, says she wants us to eat our fill cause she doesn't want to have to put it all away, except for me. So then she gets mad at me for doing that, because I'm fat. Nearly stormed out, but, didn't wanna ruin my mom's day.

I followed ChubbyGirl's advice and checked out my local Y. Being alone on Unemployment and Food stamps makes my monthly fee a whole whopping 17.33 a month. I can afford that for free, everyday access to a HEATED INDOOR POOL. So I joined! They offer Karate there too, but there's no way I'll be able to swing that... They want 53 dollars A SESSION for a member.... and that's something I would have to look into AFTER I find the new job.. And once I do get a job my fee jumps to 30 a month at LEAST.. so, 80 a week for karate lessons? That's a bit pricy for me. Maybe if, and when, I get a boyfriend who moves in, or I find THE ONE (hah... I doubt it...) maybe then... but as a single female in her own house with all the big-girl bills... nope.

Anyway, so I went to the pool and did a few laps... And then I was doing a lap and was about to turn around for home from the deep end, and there was a bunch of women, much older than I for the most part, getting styrofoam weights? and belts on made of foam? And they're like "Would you like to join us for water arobics?" "....uhhhh.... ...I... guess...?"

OMG MY BODY SO SORE.

Took a LONG shower afterward (and had my first run in with a naked woman existing her shower. o_o;;;;; ) and after that decided since my bum knee was bugging me, I would use the LOCKABLE handicapped shower so I could sit and use the massage-spray function on my bum knee to help it out... That worked a little, but I still managed to have to down a few painkillers once I got home.. After the shower and changing into my workout pants I got on the elipictal for 18 minutes total (15 workout + 3 minute cool down) and then finally went home, visited my mom and weighed in.. AND I FINALLY DID IT!!

299.0!!! I gasped SO LOUD and my mom was like "....what?!" and then I SCREEAAMMMED like a teen setting sights on Justin Bieber.. My mom was so proud of me that she bought me some exercise shorts today, a new pair of capri jeans (A SIZE 26!! I haven't fit into a size 26 IN EONSSSSS!!!) and, my favorite, a new black hoodie, which with my sister's help I'll be plastering an Assassin's Creed logo on the back of that sucker and 'beaking' the hood- I love making my own gaming-inspired clothing and I've been wanting to make an AC hoodie for myself for a while now. ^_^

So anyway, I'm just flabbergasted at the past week. All the weeks I was working out (and I figured I had the most workouts and was staying consistent), I GAINED GAINED GAINED! And my mom tried to keep me upbeat about it.. but this past week, my best friend in Kansas quit her old job at Kansas University to start a new job at Garmin... and she has anxiety.. well, her anxiety took over and she had a panic attack on orientation day and lost the new job.. so she tried to go back to KU and they told her to buzz off. When she's down we RP online alot to keep her mind off of things and take the edge off... and then just yesterday she called me in tears because her car broke down and needs a $1,000+ dollar repair and now she's out of work.. she needs to go to counselings and get on her anxiety meds again and she has no health insurance..... so I didn't get ANY working out done because I've been trying to be there for her this past week and RP RP RP to keep her mind out of it... She's doing a bit better but, I just find it odd. I worked out, I gained weight. I didn't work out, I lost. But I'm not gonna stop!! I'll be taking my walk with the dogs tonight after Casshern Sins is done and my friend heads to bed... then bed for me right afterward. I hopefully have a meet-and-greet with some people who want one of my adoptable kittens... so I gotta be up in enough time for that.

Anyway, you ladies have a fine day or evening! Sorry for the super-long post, but that's just my nature... I'm a talker!

alaskanlaughter 08-26-2012 01:35 AM

way to go!! i know the feeling of finally getting to a size/weight/etc that you havent seen in EONS!! way to go!! so nice of your mom to get you some things too!

i sure can understand trying to be there for someone like you with your friend...my sister has very limited coping skills plus mental health issues and substance abuse problems...she calls me ALL THE TIME over things that, to her, represent Major Crisis! but to others are just average-day happenings such as boyfriend being a few minutes late home from work etc...she forgets what hours i say i'm working, she forgets that i'm in evening meetings (and i truly think she does forget, rather than being rude) and often cant remember half our phone conversations anyhow

Wolfshadow 08-26-2012 02:16 AM

@AlaskanLaughter - OH GOD I KNOW RIGHT?! My little sister is THE SAME WAY, only without the substance abuse. Only problem is she refuses to see anyone and get diagnosed for sure and get the help she needs to cope with her issues (She is, at the VERY least, Bipolar, OCD, and maybe some traces of Manic Depressive..) Either way, she's a handful. AND she's spontaneous when she needs attention. She calls, and wants you RIGHT THEN AND THERE and if you are busy or have plans, she gets SUPER TICKED at you. I mean, there was a time, I mentioned I had a VERY light Pina Colada (with a TRACE or Rum!) at a friend's house.... ....she cried for 3 days and refused to speak to me, claiming she didn't know me anymore.

Granted, I can sort of understand? When I hit 21 I didn't get any booze because I didn't want to end up an achoholic like my dad (Dad was abusive verbally/sexually/physically so I can see her fear of any booze) but, honestly, I only had it because it was the lightest drink available and my friends made it super-light for me because they knew of my past (I'm pretty open.) and plus I had to drive home with the boyfriend at the time, and honestly I think they kept the rum out because I didn't notice it at all. BUT OMG that was worthy of a panic attack.

At least my friend in Kansas IS on meds and KNOWS she has issues and knows how to talk them out..... my sister is too proud for it, even though given what we went threw with our upbringing, we probably both could use someone to talk to. We never did anything and even when our mom knew what had gone on we couldn't afford to kick my dad out... and his pedophilia never went away. So the best we could do was purchase keylocks and deadbolts for our bedrooms that he couldn't pick the lock to.. and he was condemned to build his own bedroom in the basement. I guess he should have been happy about that even though he complained that it was a jail cell.. It could have been a real jail cell and the other inmates don't treat guys that were like him.. but regardless we tried to forgive him and he died a free man.. But I just wish my sis would be up and willing to get help.. it's like right now.

She has fleas REALLY BAD at her house. She keeps blaming me (because I rescue all the critters and have 18 cats and 3 dogs right now, only 3 cats and 2 dogs are my own and everybody else is foster from before I lost my job) but, I don't have fleas here because the dogs get treated with Revolution and the cats get PetArmor. I tell her what she needs to do. BIL and her, they make 50,000 a year. I tell her 'get Pet Armor at Wal-Mart (her workplace! SHE GETS A DISCOUNT!!!!) for big dogs, then you drain each tube into a RX bottle and then take an oral syringe and dose it out on each kitty based on weight, and that should give her enough topical for the rest of summer and for all 4 kitties. You're gonna need to bomb ye-old house. wash ALL your bedding, take the flea spray, spray your mattress down with it and then put a zippered vinyl sheet to it so the fleas can't get out and die from the flea spray.

She and BIL cut me off and say I don't know what I'm talking about, I didn't go to Flea 101, and proceed to buy the $6.00 Hartz stuff (which I warned her can KILL her cats!!) and don't bomb the house. Now the kitties have a topical on that she refuses to reapply with the GOOD stuff, BIL's dad is visiting from El Salvador next month for the first time since their wedding 4 years ago and he's going to stay there... ...in their flea-infested house.

But I don't know what I'm talking about, y'know, the girl who has 18 cats and 3 dogs whom are all flea-free. ARG. Pigheaded. And she has our dad's god-awful temper and if she gets set off (easily done with bipolarism) she will say the most NASTY, MEAN things but will never apologize for it... cause in her mind it's your fault, not hers. She is never guilty of any wrongdoing. BIL doesn't help because honestly he should have been a stalker she avoided.. completely obsessed with her and whipped puppy for her. If she was to say the sky was Fuscia Pink with lemon yellow clouds he'd agree with her without a second thought even though they are both clearly wrong.

Drives me nuts but that's my batty family. Oh well. I can chose my friends, not my family. :P And I honestly think I am probably the most sane one out of the bunch.

Chubbygirl253 08-26-2012 06:01 PM

Wolfshadow--
I'm so glad you joined! I knew you would qualify for assistance and it is worth every penny. Water aerobics is an awesome workout. Glad you tried it. I'm home from my hunny's house 2.5 hrs away and I visited his ymca but I'm excited to be home and back for tomorrow's water aerobics class and my favorite... adaptive yoga! Yay!

CelticHarpie 08-26-2012 08:29 PM

Hello all!

I'm new to this thread. I started the Couch-to-5K on August 5th. I have not missed a day when I was supposed to run (3x a week). On Thursday I also began adding some easy dumbbell weight training on my non-running days. So far, so good.

I'm not really sure if I've been taken over by aliens or something. I've never stuck to an exercise plan this religiously for this long! I am also doing a higher protein, lower fat diet (using some Herbalife shakes). I feel very invested in the whole thing. My major goal is at least 40 lbs gone by my 40th birthday in February.

Thistleberry 08-26-2012 08:40 PM

Thanks for the reality check and encouragement, WolfShadow. I really appreciate it. :hug: I'm so jealous of your water aerobics! I wish there was a Y near me.
Yikes, sounds like your friend is going through quite a rough patch. I'll add her to my prayers. :)

Welcome, CelticHarpie! :wave:
Re: Aliens. I feel you on that. Sometimes when I've finished a workout or I'm babbling about exercise or whatever I have to take a step back because... whoa. That's me? Really?! Dang. :lol:

Chubbygirl253 08-26-2012 10:47 PM

CelticHarpie- I started c25k about the same time you did! I'm still on week 2 though just because I'm taking it a bit slower than the suggested timeline. I hope you love it, so far I do! Although week 3 looks daunting. I want to do my first couch-to-5k color run in May 2013. I'm so excited!

Wolfshadow- I'm sooo jellie of your super happy scale moment! I hope to be 299 by next Sunday when I weigh in. At least that was the goal date I had set for that challenge at the beginning of August. You should look into adaptive yoga if they have it at your Y. It is my fave! It's gentle yoga adapted for all fitness levels and has modifications for issues such as your bum knee (or my lower back injury last year that I don't want to re-injure) I know what you mean about additional programs the Y offers that aren't in your budget right now, there's a class I wanna take that's 4 wks for $40 twice a week and I think I'm gonna save my pennies and treat myself to the session that begins in October. That could be my reward for meeting my sept goal.

Are any of you on myfitnesspal.com? If you are and you'd like to add me my user name is chubbygirl253 on there too. Just mention on there that you are from 3fc. That site is an amazing weightloss tool, although I come here for the advice and comraderie and support.

When I was away at my hunny's house I didn't get enough exercise but I've stayed within my calorie budget. Tomorrow I make up for it! Getting back to my routine feels good.

westcoast rosa 08-26-2012 11:01 PM

I ran the 8k race route today and didn't die! haha. In fact, I ran longer and made better time then I ever expected. Now I have a goal time in mind and can work to reach/surpass that!!

After the run, we took our daughter swimming and I did some stretching in the hot tub (felt soooo nice).

Tomorrow I will do some abs and squats in the evening.

Thousandsunny 08-27-2012 10:49 AM

Hey ladies! Grats to all of you seeing a loss and even to those who haven't in a bit, grats on staying on target! I am off for a bike ride tonight, hoping to do a little over 8 miles total, it should be a good time. It's supposed to be hot and humid though, so that might be gross. still going to do it though.

I saw 159 on the scale for the first time since, I think, middle school so I was super psyched about that. I want to be into the 150s solidly before I declare it a thing. Still, wicked cool. :cool:

MamaJules4 08-27-2012 11:28 AM

Hello! I am new to the boards and would like to join this thread.

I have 4 children at home and work full-time so I don't often find too much time for myself for exercise. I do have a gym membership which I do use to work out on my lunch hour. It gives me 35 minutes at the gym doing cardio or weight training. It isn't as much as I would like but it is something.

I am good at staying consistent when I get into a good groove but sometimes things don't go my way. :( Appointments and missed time from work sometimes have me working through my lunch hour which means I miss out on exercise for the day.

Ultimately, I want to work out at home as well. I have a Wii Fit and the Wii Active game, work out DVD's, and the 30 Day Shred that I want to start so bad. However, I often find everything else to do at home rather than work out.

Hoping to find some support here!!

alaskanlaughter 08-27-2012 12:24 PM

welcome mama jules! i always had the same problems trying to work out at home, everything else always seems to get in the way

it's been so much easier to have a gym membership...this summer when i was working a day schedule, i would get up early on purpose to go work out because then nothing could possibly come up to get in the way...during the school year i work a split shift schedule so i have time during the day to workout

i thought i posted somewhere on here that i did a 2-mile fundraiser walk on saturday and then had a rest day on sunday...cant remember if i posted that or just thought about posting it LOL

eating wasnt very much on track this weekend, too much food in general :( i dont think i went far overboard but it was worse than i'd like to do...back on track today

am aiming for running two miles at the gym this morning...i told myself it doesnt matter what length of intervals that i run, as long as i get the mileage in, but im aiming for four sets of half mile intervals

MamaJules4 08-27-2012 04:37 PM

alaskanlaughter - Thank you. I wish that I could get to the gym before work. That is my favorite time to work out, first thing in the morning, but I have to take the kids to daycare so it doesn't work out. As soon as my 11 month old gets on a consistent wake schedule, I plan to start getting up early and getting in a work out before work. Then I can use my lunch hour strictly for weight training. Ahhh, that would be perfect.

Wolfshadow 08-27-2012 06:06 PM

@ChubbyGirl Heheh, thanks! I wasn't planning on doing it. The schedule was all wrong on my sheet.. It said Y-Noah was at 5:30 so I figured when a bunch of kids didn't show up I was golden to keep swimming... and then 6 PM rolled around and WATER AEROBICS. I still can't believe I got on that damned elliptical after! I was pouring sweat! It especially got bad after 'cool down'! I couldn't see out of my glasses, they were sopped! Sad thing is, my pool is closed till just after Labor Day for annual maintenance on it... So Sept 5th I can go back... though I'm getting ready to head over there now and get some elliptical in and hopefully one of the cool machines I saw.. something that's supposed to work your back!

Tomorrow's gonna be TONS of fun at the Y.. my sister is inspired by me, and wants to join a gym, so she's going with me tomorrow as a guest! I'll have a work out partner! ^_^ I really hope she decides to join my Y so she can go with me.

@CelticHarpie - Welcome! Yeah, I know what you mean... I can't believe I bought a swim cap! And exercise shorts!

@MamaJules - Welcome to you as well! I hope you enjoy the thread and I hope you find a way to balance kiddos and workouts! I don't have kids but I have 3 dogs and 18 cats so... I kinda know that juggle. But I also am not working right now so it's easier on me. My biggest worry is not keeping up with it when I find the new job.

@ThistleBerry - You're welcome! We all gotta keep positive and keep each other going. Don't let the bobbles get ya down. :)

Anyway, off to the Y! You ladies have a good evening!


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