aww thats soo awful, but i know what you mean. Fortunatly i have always found 3fc the best and helpful site
I recently experienced a simillar experience on another fourm, i wont name the forum or its subject as to be honest it , its a few members that spoil it for the lot basically so dont want to pass it a bad name.
BUT i simply joined as i needed help with something , and instead all i got was criticised and non helpful advice at all.........to the point i actually got the admin team to delete me from the forum
Id read a few other peoples posts and seen that one of the "posters" simply liked to have a go at people.............at end of the day they have far to much time on their hand hun. Chin up you know your not like that and thats all that matters