Hi all,
My husband always does this to me when I finally get down to a weight I like, he starts to tell me I am obessed, and so I stop. The strange thing---is that I don't think I am obsessed. He's mother sends him boxes of fudge and they didn't exactly grow up with a healthy diet, mostly of meat and potatoes.
I finally have lost 5 pounds and I've been really excited about it! He tells me that he thinks there is something wrong with me, that I might be doing emotionally well since I have fallen into this fitness craze. But I don't think so! I am feeling better about myself everyday on this new adventure, and I honestly think when I start to lose weight, it intimidates him.
I guess he's just sick of hearing me talk about weight loss. When we started dating, he weighed about 200 lbs, and he has gained about forty pounds. I feel like he gets angry when I want to make a change, and I really have. Now that I have finally gone at this with full force, I feel like he is starting to see the results, and it intimidates him?
I just want his support, and he doesn't really help me out. I tell him I am on a diet and then he goes and makes homemade frenchfries (so good). I know he does that because he know I will eat them, and it's sweet on some level, but strange on another, because he knows I am trying to make a change in my life.
Am I crazy for being on a diet?
I'm don't have an eating disorder or body image problem---I just want to lose a few pounds, and he makes me feel crazy for feeling this way.
The only solution I can think to cause less trauma in my marriage is to not talk about my weight loss goals with him, but this makes me sad, because it is a big part of my life right now, and I'd like to share that with him, but he just doesn't want to listen.
I'm not crazy, right?
Is being on a diet crazy?
Because I don't think it is, and I do it the healthy way, but he sure makes me fell that way sometimes.
Thanks for reading.