Now, when you say her 'you know what' so many things come to mind.
Without being crass, was it a um... 'tightening' procedure? haha (her husband should like her anyways if he married her, you shouldn't have to have surgery to get someone to love you)
The raw food girl sounds like she was eating few too many calories and was learning bad habits from her mom. This is why I embarked on eating better and losing weight, I'm getting married and will be having kids at some point. I want to be a good role model to them!
I've been guilty of the 'well I messed up that meal, so I'll eat whatever I want and start again tomorrow', but not for a long time
I never have 'oopsies' anymore, but if I know a tough meal is coming up that I'll have to eat at I'll plan ahead by making my other meals healthier to compensate.
I'm glad to know we have such smart chicks on this site!