Now that you're older, have you ever talked to you dad about how his well-intentioned bullying made you feel as a kid?
My father (and mother) are both heavy, so theres no room for them to talk to me about how fat and gross I was/am.
Personally, (not related to your story, just generally), I'm SO SICK of how meek and apologetic heavyset people are supposed to be -- I was obviously unhappy at 264lbs and I'd still like to lose weight, and being obese is a health risk, etc. but I really don't think anyone should just quietly accept bullying, from anyone, ever. I've seen other shows about similar topics, and the whole show was full of these @sshole guys who call their wives fat and disgusting and the crying wives saying things like, "I KNOW I have to lose weight! But it's hard! I have to lose weight!!!" instead of saying, "Listen bro, I'm your wife and I demand your respect -- give it to me, treat me like a human being, or good bye. Go find someone more up to your standards." (Yes, i would break up with someone for chronic disrespect and bullying).
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Originally Posted by SephyFowl
Wow great insight KLK. I do believe that is true. I can remember my Dad saying somethings like, "Look at what you are doing to yourself, you are eating yourself to death", or "You know you need your ankles taped because the weight on them while you are tumbling and pounding on them is too much for them to handle". That was all when I was like 160 and wearing a size 12/14. As a teenager I hated it, thought he was the worst man alive for commenting on my weight. lol Now I see that those comments were meant to help me and shock me into reality. I would never ever allow anyone to talk to me about my weight using name calling and abuse..
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