Hey, Dee! Adding breakfast doesn't have to add calories at all. The same studies that show that people who lose weight and keep it off eat breakfast show also that the people who eat breakfast eat fewer calories in the course of the day.
The idea is that by adding a healthy breakfast, you not only increase your metabolism and give yourself more energy throughout the day, but you are not nearly so hungry at lunch and during the afternoon.
For someone like you, who's hasn't eaten breakfast in many years and has weight to lose, it's important to realize that you can approach this successfully by
first establishing how many calories you should eat to meet your body's needs and also lose weight;
second, identifying a healthy, relatively low-cal breakfast that you'll eat consistently and supports your lifestyle and weight loss goals; and
third, figuring out how to apportion the remaining calories throughout your day.
A lot of overweight folks tend to skip breakfast, eat an off-plan lunch because they're so hungry by then, and then overeat at dinner because they're still playing catch-up. By investing the calories (and remember CALORIES = ENERGY, literally) in the beginning of the day, you give your body the fuel it needs to move with more power and umph during the day, rather than dumping the majority of them in the latter part of the day, when you don't have as much time to benefit from the energy and then burn the fuel through activity.
I would encourage you to change your way of thinking about breakfast calories; you're not adding to an existing routine without modifying your eating behavior; instead, you're modifying your eating behavior to include giving your body what it needs when it most needs it.
I didn't eat breakfast either, but when I started to eat on plan in March of last year, I knew I had to. Prior to that, I fell in with the majority of fat folks with the above-mentioned M.O. I set my calories, and then spread them out over 5 meals a day -- it's hard to get hungry when you're eating something every 2 1/2 - 3 hours! Because I count calories, it was important to me to choose meals that were low in calories and high on energy and all the rest of stuff that a body needs. In so doing, I lost about 80 pounds in 8 months, and I was slow to consistently exercise. (That was the hardest part for me.)
For the record, my breakfast of choice is:
--> ½ cup Kashi Go Lean with ½ cup All Bran Extra Fiber and 8 oz. skim milk
--> Protein Drink (no carb, no sugar, no sodium, 22g protein) with 8 oz. water
--> 16 oz. water
Hope this helps!
