I am SO happy for you. I know just how delighted you are. Because when it happened to me, I was over the top ecstatic.
Same here I just passed up mine too he was 210 or so... Although he's recently in the last month gotten on the lose weight bandwagon and down to 204. (He's even counting calories - so Cute!)
He's chasing me down, but I'm still lower.
I know it shouldn't matter but, eh... It still felt nice. Makes one feel more feminine or something.
Same here I just passed up mine too he was 210 or so... Although he's recently in the last month gotten on the lose weight bandwagon and down to 204. (He's even counting calories - so Cute!)
He's chasing me down, but I'm still lower.
I know it shouldn't matter but, eh... It still felt nice. Makes one feel more feminine or something.
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It DOES make you feel more feminine. I love it
Yes, yes, it MATTERS - a lot. I'm sorry, but it just does. Men are supposed to weigh more then woman, NOT the other way around. Unless of course the woman is waaay taller then the man.
I was always very uncomfortable with it. It just felt out of sync and I don't know - wrong.
And I feel free to leap on him now, he picks me up, I don't feel like I will crush him.
I might add that he's 6 feet and SOLID muscle. Like HUGE chest, arms and legs. Knowing how big he IS always made me feel sooooo huge Because he's a "BIG GUY" so what did that make me?
THIS is the way it's supposed to me. I will NEVER weigh more than him again. Ever ever ever.
And I feel free to leap on him now, he picks me up, I don't feel like I will crush him.
And there's been times when DH wants me to sit on his lap. I would tell him, no I'll crush you. And he'd be all like, "what are you kidding, you're a toothpick" "I'm a toothpick?" Me? Took me a long time to realize that I wouldn't cause him bodily harm. It's just wonderful. All these things bring me so much joy. I get the biggest kick out of it.
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THIS is the way it's supposed to me. I will NEVER weigh more than him again. Ever ever ever.
Yes!!! Times a million.
It's these type things that prove the point when I frequently say that passing up on "those foods" is no deprivation. But that EATING it "those foods" is the real deprivation. I deprived myself of sooooo much joy for so long. Not any more. Never. Ever. Again. I know you feel the same way.
I am late in congratulating you but want to add my congratulations. The truth is I am jealous but you are really inspiring me and I look forward to weighting less than DH. It will be a long time because he is 5'6" and only carries a few extra pounds. Isn't 20 extra pounds a few? I think the folks in this club understand.
Yes, yes, it MATTERS - a lot. I'm sorry, but it just does. Men are supposed to weigh more then woman, NOT the other way around. Unless of course the woman is waaay taller then the man.
I was always very uncomfortable with it. It just felt out of sync and I don't know - wrong.
I'm sorry but this is offensive. My husband weighs 140 and I have to say I maybe weighed 140 when I was 8 years old but even imagining getting there is really mind blowing. And every woman is feminine in her own way, no matter if they weigh 120 or 300 and I couldn't imagine telling a woman she is wrong to weigh more than a man.
I am proud of every woman who makes such an achievement but honestly, it isn't in my plan.
Because he's a "BIG GUY" so what did that make me?
Congratulations! 
Keep up the awesome work! I bet it's a great feeling. 
CFMAMA!
