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Old 06-24-2009, 05:31 PM   #31  
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You have a plan in hand and a clear goal in mind --- you will do just fine, Matt. And good for you for jumping right back on plan so fast! Now I know who to call to kick my behind when I am slip-sliding away.



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Old 06-24-2009, 07:52 PM   #32  
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Matt, I am so sorry you are hurting right now. When I feel so, so sad, frustrated, upset . . . I try to journal my feelings or write the person I am frustrated with a letter of how I feel. (and DON'T send it). It is helpful to do it.

Hang in there. Every day is a new beginning.
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Old 06-24-2009, 09:14 PM   #33  
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BIG HUGS!


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Old 06-25-2009, 12:42 AM   #34  
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So I just got back and man, that sucked. The good things are today was really good food/ exercise wise. I also didn't drink and stuck to the plan of getting there late and leaving relatively early (11pm). The bads news forcing a smile and pretending to be happy didn't work. It takes time and I certainly am not there yet.
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Old 06-25-2009, 01:30 AM   #35  
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Hang in there, Matt. We're here for you, buddy, so keep posting.
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Old 06-25-2009, 08:32 AM   #36  
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One minute. One hour, one day, one week. May your cumulative life experiences and your well-earned victories (and your supportive 3FC'ers) help you forward until the healing of time takes over.
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Old 06-25-2009, 10:47 AM   #37  
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Just ONE good choice a day. Making nice faces when your heart has been ripped out of your chest and stomped on takes alot of strength.
"Couragio" --things can only get better...

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Old 06-25-2009, 11:27 AM   #38  
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Hang in there, you'll get through this!
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Old 06-25-2009, 12:38 PM   #39  
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Yeah, it sure couldn't have felt good last night, but you did the RIGHT thing --- you were there for the mutual friend and you were there for YOU, eating right and avoiding the alcohol. Give yourself big points for that because you earned them, Matt!
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