With my temper in check and my bruised emotions put to one side, I went ahead and thanked my friend and accountability partner for the pie. Then, I asked her why she baked me a pie when she knew I was watching my intake. The conversation went something like this.
"I've seen you eat pie on your
diet, and I know you like it."
The emphasis was hers.
I explained that my lifestyle changes allow for occasional treats, and while I appreciate the gesture that I'd prefer that she not give me any more pies. She said that she wouldn't, but it was said in a very noncommittal way.
I've decided that I don't want her as a partner.
I don't think that she sees my way of doing things as worthwhile because they aren't restrictive enough.
I guess I'm on my own.
she knows you are on a sencible plan and you can work a slice in here and there i would have carved it up and frozen it.. So you can enjoy some more later when its fit into your plan again. Have you tryed talking to her about her yoyo method?? It will be better for her if she does it right and stays at a slow steady rate . I understand if shes not interested but do you wonder if she is a closet binger??? the up and downs seem to extreeme for it to be anything else?
I don't get it. I couldn't have made it this far without such as fantastic group of accountability partners like I've found here at 3FC. I sit here and read....then, I proceed with staying on-plan and exercising. That's not so evil in my book.
I could easily spend an entire day sitting in front of the computer reading rather than doing. 
