I have to wonder though, would you have noticed or cared if you hadnt been making every effort to lose weight ?
It happens a lot in life as somebody above says, and i knew about it when i was fat and didnt care, but now that ive lost a good deal i DO care about it, however though im not focal or really obvious about it, i still do compare myself to others. The only people ive ever asked if they've had enough would be my kids lol
Sounds like you did the right thing with your friend. good on ya for sticking up for yourself. Just wait until you're smaller than her - you can do it right back ... maybe in a less mean way