Yes, Cara, congratulations on asking specifically for what you need. I have trouble in that area too. Too often I expect people to read my mind, and am disappointed when they don't. But since I'm so bad at mind reading, it really isn't fair of me to expect it! I find people like to be asked, but they hate being complained at. So I'm trying to do more asking (without overdoing it) and less complaining. You know, to be focused on the solution rather than on the problem.
yes shellie, i know exactly what you mean. I have never been one to ask b/c I dont want to inconvenience anyone. But if someone needs something im the first one to jump up and take control. My mom tells me I stick my nose in places it doesnt belong.
Well Im back at work today. Dont know how long I will be here but at least Im here. I put on a girdle to serve as a back brace but I'll jsut have to see how long I can tolerate this chair. Good news is I didnt gain any weight!!!! TOM even came and this morning I was back at 216 which was my weighin weight monday,
I find people like to be asked, but they hate being complained at. So I'm trying to do more asking (without overdoing it) and less complaining. You know, to be focused on the solution rather than on the problem.
