OMGosh! If I heard my husband say that to me we would not be sleeping in the same house. What a TERRIABLE thing to say!!! I am 27, 5'7" and started my weight loss when I went to the Dr. and weighed in at 202. I am down to 190 after a month and a half of work, it is slow but it is coming off. If I didn't have my husbands total support - meaning he will love me and treat me like a sexy, desirable woman pounds on or pounds off - I wouldn't be able to lose weight and stay in the relationship with him.
I started weight watchers a week before New Years and he was VERY supportive - he even bought me a nice scale that stores your info and gives body fat and stuff. So I could tell that he was happy I was ready to really commit to weight loss - which made me feel a little bad because I felt a little like I had been a bad wife for being overweight, but on the other hand it made me feel SO GOOD that hadn't ever said anything to me or even let on that he was turned off by my weight.
I know that I have the best husband in the world. I am begining to think that he should give a class on how to love your wife properly!
You need to lose weight for you, not for anyone else, and I am sure that you know this.
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