Hi Sarah,
My aunt and uncle have been foster carers, mainly for babies and toddlers, for about 15 years now, and although they're close to retirement, they have no plans to give up. They have some kids for a few days, on respite care, and others stay for up to 2 or 3 years ... I think they found the same as you at first, that the social services were tough with them, but once they'd been through it a few times - proved themselves, so to speak - they found they were very trusted and really appreciated. Sometimes it has been really hard, but I know they think it's worth it. You're doing a very special thing. Good luck!
Lolly
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