GetFitFast, I'm so sorry.
I really understand what you're going through, and I know how tough it is. I admire your motivation to focus on "doing" while waiting to try to conceive again - I know you will reach your goals.
I've also been away from this thread for a bit. I found out in early June that I was pregnant, but shortly after seemed to be miscarrying and had a D&C. A week later I began having severe abdominal pain on one side, and it took a few ER visits and a hospital stay (and a tremendous amount of pain) before anyone realized I had an ectopic pregnancy. A routine laparoscopic procedure should have taken care of things, but there were complications during the surgery and I ended up with a full laparotomy. After the surgery my OB/GYN told me that I have severe endometriosis, which is the reason I had been unable to get pregnant for so long, and was the cause of the ectopic pregnancy and all the pain I was having. He also told us that the chance of another ectopic is too high for us to try to conceive naturally, and IVF will be our only option for a pregnancy.
I have been very, very sad, as well as angry and frustrated. I am now almost 4 weeks post-surgery, and I am still working on healing and recovery. I have been unable to exercise for the past 6 weeks, but I am focusing on keeping my food intake in check so that I can still lose some weight. I am trying to stay positive and think forward; we should be able to start the IVF in 4 months or so, and hopefully that will work for us.
Haven't really been doing anything weight wise. I'm now going to quit moping and do something about me! I'm giving myself 3 months time to lose the weight before we start trying again, and I need all the support and motivation I can get! Thanks 
