[annie175]

T and I broke up tonight. Nothing but tears tonight. He is just not emotionally or physically into the relationship. Personally, I think the working nights, 7 days a week and his past relationships have fuked with his mind. He said he feels really bad that he cannot give me what he thinks I need in this relationship. He said not that I am unhappy by any means but just thinks I could be happier with someone else. Well forgive me for not thinking for myself. He said I am a pretty person inside and out, and a great cook. He felt like he was wasting my time and his by him not putting into this relationship as much as I am. Please don't say anything negative about him as he really is a good person. It hurts something awful. 14 months is a long time to spend with someone. My head hurts, my eyes hurt, my brain hurts, just numb me. Off to margaritaville. Thanks for listening.

[annie175]

Sorry Laura, I am glad you are finally feeling better.

Happy, you get to feeling better too.

Hey ya Ceejay.

[annie175]

Shad....here is some of this rainy, 40 degree weather.....winds blowing strong toward you.

[Shad]

Annie - now I know what that cryptic facebook message was about. I'm sorry girlfriend. I don't know what went wrong there because at one time he was talking long term holidays etc., but he is right in some respects - you haven't got time for each other, you are both working crazy hours and he may feel that he can't give enough and neither can you. It hurts. I hope that you both left it on a friendship basis because, you never know what is around the corner for either of you. I'd love to join in the margarita, but would be in danger of painting something moving with the roller and brush if I did. It really is like the Navy around here: If it moves, salute it. If it doesn't, paint it.
Heres for you.

[happy2bme]

Annie my dear, I am so sorry for you. I don't know what to say other than the longer I am around men, the less I understand them.

You have alot going on in your life at the moment, please don't give in to your first impulses - it just makes for more stress.

There's nothing I can think of to say other than I will I could curl up on the couch and cry with you...