Wow Misty........I think I'd have to eat a dozen doughnuts!!!!!!!

And, we wonder why we can't focus on the subject at hand with all that other stuff going on. You just have one issue after another piling up, don't cha girl?!?!?!

I wish I could help you! But you know, marriage, kids, jobs, houses, cars....................they are all hard work! You get back what you put it into it! I think that is true with all of those issues! I think a secure job with benefits sounds really inviting. And, you know, you said that you planned on being a stay at home mom when you & DH started having babies, well, sometimes (unfortunately) we have to make changes! I'm sure whatever you decide will work out for you. I'll say a prayer for you and your family! Keep your chin up and keep us posted! Big ol' hugs to you!!!