Matt, my 71 year old mother is a lifetime member and has been for many years. She is also below her goal weight and her doctor is happy with her weight. She's a very loyal member and never misses a week. It's basically her social life, but she also takes it seriously. Her leader doesn't make her weigh in anymore. I don't know what the rules state but it's very comforting to know that her leader understands what is in her best interest. I don't know what to suggest for you, but I hope it ends - or continues - just as well