Ok I will talk to my leader.
Mini-goals work for me. I have the following goals:
10 lbs - hubby makes dinner
20 lbs - get to go on a scenic drive
30 lbs - go play bingo
40 lbs - hike Big Laguna trail
50 lbs - new outfit
60 lbs - go horseback riding (we would rent them)
I look forward to these, I made the 10 lb one and I am about 1.5 lbs away from my 20 lb one. To me, they help me focus on one goal at a time so that it doesn't seem so overwhelming to lose 80+ lbs.