We may not be in total agreement, but I'm not sure we totally disagree here.
For instance, I advocated increasing weights when they became too easy. I did not advocate continuing with a lift as heavy as you can approach. I guess I wasn't clear there.
Also, I said "Unless it is unsafe to do so, continue to increase the weight." You mentioned "My muscles are capable of lifting heavier than my joints( particularly shoulders and elbows) can support." So, I think we actually agree here, in that in your case, it would be unsafe to continue to increase weight.
But you, of course, are 100% correct that there are several other ways to adhere to challenge the muscle rather than just increasing the weight. Since the original poster mentioned increasing weights as her current method, I looked at it a bit narrowly.
This is why you are the professional and I'm just an enthusiast
