Jif,
My prayers are with you, your mom, and the rest of your family. This is a tough hump to get over, but YOU need to take care of yourself or you'll be in hospital too. Force yourself to eat/drink what you need to stay healthy--Protein, vitamins, etc.
Jiff: I'll be saying a novena for you and your Mom! Our Thoughts and prayers are with you honey. Please don't hesitate if you need anything! Remember to take care of you!!!