I think you're a success as long as you don't give up and give in!
Stay with your program!
If your activity level has dropped, you'll probably need to lower your calorie intake accordingly.
I've been having a terrible time with this dilemma--I have a sedentary job where I sit all day. But I have finally had to realize that I am just not ever going to be able to average much more than about 1500 calories a day to maintain my weight, and it's got to be less than that to lose.
I found FitDay really helpful for tracking calories, but I don't believe their numbers for base calories burned. I just set it for sedentary all day, and add in whatever exercise I do (I walk every morning for a mile or two, and I go to the YMCA 5 or 6 days a week also--for the exercise machines and weight machines).
I decided to have a Whopper for lunch last week. Single, no cheese. Came to find out from their website that it was 670 calories!!!!!!
Wow, that really cut into my daily allotment! I made it through, but it was a sad evening with no snack at all. So, these are the kinds of choices. There is no ignoring it.
Ladies, let's do what we have to do!
Jay