Sweety....Living well is the best revenge!!! (however, do allow yourself time to get thru the grief process, for your own mental well being)

Karma, just be glad that youre rid of the jerk. You could have ended up marrying him and THEN had this happen. Youre all the wiser for the experience. It is horrible that he operates like this. What a person. Just think of the opportunity youll have now to find a better man. And you'll be doing it with your hot new body in tow this time!!

I agree... I was so tempted to do something terrible but I know that in end my new body and new3 attitude will be revenge enough. Thanks for your kind words

I'm looking forward to showing off the new me. I just knew that I would be a mess and that all this hard work would just go down the drain... The total opposite has happened, I'm more determined, and working out keeps my mind off of the LOL

I LOOOOOVE this board. I REALLY appreciate all of you guys support. I can't even put it into words how much it all means to me.

You go Girl!

Keep your mind, your body and your heart busy. Life always falls into place, even when it looks the worst...

My best to you - I know it's difficult!

Thank you. I am try to keep that in mind. It is going to take a looooonnng while but I am going to get through this.