It's just a label - I would focus more on where you should be based on your own goals, body height, and health. I'm around 33 BMI right now - that's obese too, but I don't really "care" about having that label. I just want to be healthy and happy.
Maybe that doesn't help you though?
A chart like this might help you out -
http://www.healthyandnaturalworld.co...-can-tell-you/ It doesn't look like 44 is on there, but would fall under the extremely obese. Keep doing what you can to get that weight off and the bmi will come down when the weight comes off. *hugs*