How to get started the right way?
Hi everyone, I just joined this forum and am looking forward to finding support here.
I'm no newbie to dieting - Since I was like 14 years old, I've suffered from extreme diet/eating disorder habits, and only in the past couple years have I finally freed myself from all that. I am not super thin or in shape anymore, but I also no longer hate my body, refuse to do things because I'm not skinny enough, ever skip a meal or eat just a couple hundred calories a day, or go crazy if I can't get to the gym. I don't really do any formal exercise, just whatever walking I do on errands or cleaning, and I just eat whatever I feel like! That part is all awesome. I'd never choose to go back to my old extreme methods to drop the weight quickly and be super skinny (even if I could anymore), because it's definitely not worth it.
I'm here because I would like to lose a little weight, for the most part simply for health reasons. I want to feel a bit more energetic and healthy day to day. I'm past thinking that being skinny or toned will make my life better, and I'm definitely not desperate about it, but I would also just like to look a bit better for my personal aesthetics too, I guess, just to enjoy the way clothes look on myself, etc. Nothing judgmental about how I look now, and I'm not super unhealthy or anything. I just want to make a few changes for the better!
My question is, any tips on how to ease into doing this sanely? What I DON'T want to do is make any huge changes all at once, count calories, or make any absolute rules to follow...I just want to find some new sustainable habits to start and keep up forever! I know ALLLL the technical stuff about how to lose weight (it used to be practically my whole life!), but I really want to kind of start new, if that makes sense, and not go back to the old crazy. I no longer have the power or the desire to exercise for an hour a day, eat a 500 calorie dinner, or refuse dessert. Anyone have any good advice? I'd appreciate any thoughts at all!
Also, to add: I'm currently around 62kg, where I've been maintaining around for a couple years, like I said, without exercising and eating whatever, having something like 3000 calories a day, if I go back and count. Until then, I'd always maintained closer to 50kg and about 17% body fat at my adult height for years and years, but that was with being very serious and disordered about weight control, so I don't know if it's reasonable or healthy to expect or try to be quite that thin again...just some middle ground would be nice.
Last edited by jes2444; 09-13-2013 at 03:28 AM.
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