My sex drive has always been high and so far remains unaffected by my weight loss. I think my husband might actually be relieved if my sex drive dropped a little bit!

Sex drive? What's that?

Mine went the way of the dodo bird a couple of years ago and has not come back even after the weight I've dropped.

Mine is down, I also find that I use most of energy exercising. Not to say that I couldn't come up with more energy for play time but, for some reason I'm just not all that interested .

Me, too! I think it's bc I'm eating 85% fat and have more energy for everything.

Made me laugh till I literally cried!!!

Mine is way up too...but my BF can't keep his hands off me and my new slimming curves. He of course says he likes me no matter what but I can tell he's looking at me different and touching me more/all the time. It's delightful.

Early morning is the best time if you have toddlers! (IMO) That's the only time I can be 100% certain they won't storm the barricade! Plus it gets the day off on a positive note.

Mine is about the same, but we are "frequent flyers", as it was so hilariously put! I don't think I have hours in the day for more given both of our busy schedules, as well as having two toddlers. But I am feeling better about myself, so while quantity remains steady, quality is up!

Thanks for the threa, Ian! I was actually thinking about this today. My drive used to be crazy high but its so low lately. My man is sexy as ever so i imagine its just my own emotional reaction as i get to reknow my body. I feel desirable but i keep holding back.

And elvislover, thank you for sharing that with us this is such a big year in yoir life and your avatar means more than ever

Elvislover that's one though situation you're in...I shall keep you and your husband in my prayers.

We conceived our twins after 5 years of infertility and several losses. Evnetually IVF worked for us and I still have days I can't quite believe it has happened. And they'll be two in June!

The important thing to remember here is that God loves you and He wants you to be happy. He wants to bless you. It might not always be in time and way we expect, but it will happen. One way or another, I shall pray you keep your faith and are blessed very soon!!!

Re morning sex with toddlers...I mean seriously...if 5 am is my only chance to "fly", I'm staying on the ground forever!

I try not to think about it because my husband is deployed. LOL ask me again later this year.

Really though, I'm not sure if I could distinguish between it being up from losing weight or stopping birth control pills.

Thank you, everyone. It's all in God's hands now.

In my thoughts, Elvis!

I go up and down, but even when my sex drive is "down" it's still really up in comparison to most people. down for me is only wanting it once a day... my poor husband...

Mine hasn't really changed, but being in a long distance relationship it's different when where together we're making up for lost time. Plus my weight loss hasn't happened in front of his eyes so every time I visit he has a new slimmer body to play with lol. I think this would be different between men and women though at least a bit.

While losing, mine hasn't really changed much. Not yet, anyway. It's not as high as it used to be before though. But it's not exactly low either

This.