okay, backstory: day before yesterday, we had to drive to lindsay (an hour away). at lunch, my daughter's father decides he wants pizza and of course my daughter (5 in a week) was all for it. so i sat there in pizza pizza knocking back a diet coke and a plain tea watching them eat pizza.
saari kept urging me to eat some and i finally said not to keep asking, it was getting me cranky. so she asks me, right in front of everybody in the line-up, "is it because you have a fat belly?" - not rudely, just very concerned and compassionately, but i went beet red and the lady at the next table gave me SUCH a sympathetic look. coulda done without the giggles from the teens in the lineup though. and Himself chimes in "that's it, baby. that's why" like it's a big joke.
yesterday, he bought two delissio pizzas for dinner - i had none so there was a lot left over. i scraped the plates into the garbage (saari doesn't like olives and mushrooms so she picks them off) and did the dishes.
this morning, saari wanted pizza for breakfast so fine - but instead of scraping the plate into the garbage, i ate the olives and mushrooms - some of them had cheese. very yummy.
so i told her father enough is enough with the pizza - nobody wanted pizza in months now it's every day!? he said they're not the ones on a diet, so i have no right to tell them what to eat.
am i out of line?
i don't know if it's related but at my weigh-in, i was down 8-1/2lbs and his reation was not what i'd hoped. i'd figured he'd come out with something like "oh yeah..." or whatever, but not the snarky "and how long is this going to last?". i also didn't expect the negativity re my bust (which is really where it shows the most - the girls are always the first to decamp) and it was a little disheartening (although since he's a jerk anyway i wasn't actually surprised).
btw: he makes a LOT of negative comments about my weight but i've seen the hidden file on his computer (NEVER try to hide something from a computer geek wife!) and they are definitely *not* supermodel types. seems in his heart of hearts, he and Sir Mixalot have a lot in common.