I wouldn't say these are 'evil' motivations but they are definitely geared towards my vanity more than anything else. I don't care though as they are the only motivations that have helped me to stay on track.
1) I want to borrow my mum and sisters clothes, they are a UK size 8/10 (US 4/6).
2) I want all the men who've dumped me over my weight to feel sick with jealousy and for me to say some thing cool along the lines of 'I'm sorry, do I know you?'
3) Not wanting to cry when I go into a fitting room when I'm buying clothes.
4) I want to look amazing in all types of lighting, not just the dimmed, candle light type lighting. Even the harsh fluorescents you get in changing rooms at the gym or clothes shops.
5) I want to wear a skirt without having to wear spanx underneath, so I don't get the dreaded chub rub.
6) I want to be able to throw anything on and look amazing!
i want to be the skinny one between me and my sister
i want to be smaller than my sister
i still dont want to share clothes with my sister but not because there to big BECAUSE THERE TO SMALL!
lol thats basically it. : ) for my evil reasons.
- I want to do some pin up modeling.
- I will take some trips to see old friends as the "new me" - especially all those skinny friends who always talked about how great they were and how thin and desirable they were - look out!
- I want to go out in a little black dress and heels!
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...3. My sister has admitted to nightmares that I come home from college skinnier than her... I want her nightmares to come true buahahaha
4. I want my mother to stop bothering me about my weight and say she's "worried about me" because I'm so thin haha!
5. I want to be sooo hot that my evil ex boyfriend will burst into tears when I walk into the room.....
You are just so funny! Loved number 3. And I absolutely agree with number 4. My mother has been worrying my whole life about my "weight" and my "health". Every time I talk to her on the phone, she'd ask me how I'm doing with my weight.
I am planning a big trip home next April. She lives, far far away. And I want her to say the exact same thing: What happened to you? Why are you so skinny? You need to eat more!...
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-I want to be fitter at 40 (next year) than I was at 20.
Jojo381972 has hit home with this one! I did lose like, 40 pounds before I turned 40, and no clue what went in my head, and gain most of it back. So now, that I am passed 40, I would love to be once in my lifetime, the weight I am suppose to be. Fit and Happy.
These are always fun! I have a million, but I'll stick with a newer one.
I have one that simultaneously makes me laugh maniacally in my head and feel bad. It's not a motivation so much as a perk I'm looking forward to.
I have a friend who has always been skinny (her highest weight for a second was 130), who always talks about how incredibly hot she is (I kid you not - 20 minute conversations on the topic), and then turns around and says something to me like, "I know your feet are really big, but at least your figure matches them." Yeah, I'm fat, I got it.
So, I want to have to borrow some of her jeans (or make up a reason to do so), and then have to ask for a belt because they are just too big. I know it's shallow, but I want it. And I wanna see the look on her face, 'cause it'll be hilarious. I do feel bad, but less bad when I remember that she's thrilled that I'm much bigger than her (I've known her long enough that I can read her astonishingly well).
I'm never very offended when she gives me sneaky insults (or comments that make her feel better), but I get irked because she's right - I'm fat and she's way hotter than me because of it. But she's the type who'll panic when I'm her size or smaller. That'll be fun.
I've said it before, but it's worth repeating..
-I want my ex husband to cry himself to sleep at night knowing I'm so much hotter than his girlfriend.
-I want my husband's friends to wonder how he hit the jackpot with such a hot wife with a great personality (not just being seen as "nice," which is great, but hot and nice is so much better )
-To be able to wear the hooker heels I love so much but haven't been able to dance in due to my weight
-Speaking of dancing, to be able to shake it and not be embarrassed by all the jiggles
-Ok, one more, to be able to wear clothes that so off my tattoos and get more tats to show off
I also want to make my husband jealous. He's just not the type, really, but I think some jealousy can be flattering if it's not over the top, ugliness. Anyways, I'd love to be hit on by a man or get a look from a man and have my husband express jealousy.
Another evil motivations is that I want to be the thin twin or the thin one at family gatherings. I've been there and I know how good it tastes! I want to get back to that, desperately! My sister is gorgeous, even when heavy, and she's heavy. At least give me thin!
My not so evil motivation is, I just want to feel good, look good and regain that confidence I once had. Like others, I just don't feel comfortable, in my own skin.
- My ex friend asked my roommate recently if I'd "gained all the weight back". She replied "No, actually she's lost more". Hah, vindication.
- People talk to me more now. I know that's an unfair fact of society, but I want them to keep doing it. It feels nice.
- I want to be thinner than my roommate, but not tell her, and see how long she keeps using the line "well, it doesn't even fit me, so it won't fit you." (I'm already a size smaller than her... I just haven't told her that).
Last edited by Jo Kittibuck; 10-06-2011 at 10:33 PM.
I had a friend who I had a giant crush on and I asked him out (This was before I even met my fiancee) and he turned me down. While he didn't SAY so, I'm 100% sure it was because of my weight.
I would love to be at goal and see him; show him what hot stuff he's missing 8)
He's also turned into a jerk now, so I'm glad I dodged that bullet.
Damn...it seems we all have so much hate for our female friends. This female competition bothers me so much! And I'm not judging, because I have the same feelings of wanting to be thinner than my friends etc. It's kind of sick, don't you think? Sometimes I hate being a woman, for that exact reason...
I don't want people to tell me that they're worried because I got so skinny. I have a friend who went from being overweight to anorexic and looks like **** now. I hope that she doesn't take it as a compliment when everybody around her is concerned. I don't want to go from one extreme to the other.
I LOVE these threads!!!!!! And I love everyone's evil motivations. The more self-centered, shallow, pathetic, vindictive the better, haha. I actually started writing in a physical journal, and let myself write down some of the most devious thoughts, haha. It was fun!
A few of mine:
- I want to be the hot wife. The cute thin wifey who flits around in a sundress at parties that all the other wives hate for being a hottie and all the guys secretly oogle...hehe.
- I want to be a snooty food snob even if I never express it or say it out loud. I want to be able to scan other peoples' plates, grocery carts, etc and think "Gee, I'm so glad I have more self control and don't eat junk like that."
- I personally have no problem with the "Megan, you're so tiny!" comments, hehe.
- I'm a vet tech, and we wear scrubs everyday. I like to (loudly) complain that "even the extra smalls are baggy...I'm always having to hike my pants up!" I do this now, so this isn't really a goal. But to be completely honest, with my extra 5lbs or so, my XS's aren't too loose, haha.
I love this post :-)
1. I want to be as thin as my sister. She is a professional dancer and always gets the attention when we're out together. I'd like to at least get half of it!
2. I too want to be the hott girl/wife and get the occasional oogle :-)
3. I want to be able to wear a bikini for the first time since I was six.
4. I want to be able to wear clothes without spanx or bodyshapers.
5. I want people to stare at my ten year reunion next summer :-)
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