The trainer I just started working with told me to aim for 1 gram of protein per pound of lean body mass. We figured out my lean body mass to be about 110 lbs and it is SO hard for me to get that much protein in when I'm cutting calories and don't love eating meat, but I do my best. Of course, this advice was for building muscle/losing fat. I've also heard of other ways to calculate your protein needs (again, in the realm of building muscle/losing fat)- I think one was something like 1.6 grams per KG of body weight...but don't quote me on that
. I'm sure if you googled it, you could find a way to figure out how much protein you need.
In general, I like to get my nutrients from 'real food' but I do supplement with whey protein sometimes. I probably wouldn't worry about it unless you're doing it long term, but like other posters have said, maybe cut back on the shakes and look for some other foods that you enjoy, that satisfy you and that keep the cravings at bay.