Greetings from Northern VA . I'd like to share a bit of my story first. I have been pretty much overweight most of my life , except for a brief period when I was 16-19 or so (Lots of skateboarding) . I am 5'9" and was hovering around the 300 mark for a few years. Unsucsessfully trying to eat less to lose weight. I may of lost and gained 20-30lbs a few times. Then after lots of loving nagging by my wife , I decided to start doing water aerobics.
Now I am a mid 30's guy in water aerobics class with mostly 60+ women. It was actually fun. After doing that for a year or so I noticed the weight was coming off. I was down 40+ lbs. Then I decided to kick it up a notch in the intensity level. So I started doing cardio kickboxing 3 , then 4 times a week. Combined with calorie counting / portion control I lost another 90 or so in the past 14 months. So I am now down to 159 (135lbs lost) .
Now here is the issue , my wife , who I find very beautiful is now saying I am too skinny , calls me "Kate Moss" in a derogatory manner , is critical of how much time I spend at the gym ( normally 4 hours a week ) . I feel she tries to push food on me .
She is pretty much irritated that I now weigh less then her (she's 5'8" 170) . So before she nagged me to lose weight , suggested all kinds of benefits (eluding to more sex) to losing , ect... No that I am in a normal BMI range I am getting nagged still.
So that is issue number one
I will leave it at that for now, but what should I do ?