There is a certain irony that it can be diifficult to lose weight when training for distance events. When I was training for my half-marathon, my weight stayed the same, but my lean mass went down and my body fat % went up!
Sadness....
For someone so active and who is a pretty healthy weight, I think I would recommend making sure that you eat a junkfood, processed food-free diet 90% of the time and maybe consider swapping out a couple of longer cardio sessions for HIIT training. But it depends what your goals are. If a distance tri is your goal, train for that, but don't be surprised if the scale is stubborn. If fat loss is your goal, try HIIT.
Do come join us in the exercise forums! There are threads for runners, tri atheletes, weight lifting, etc. You have gotten some good advice from some of the more athletic chickies on the board. The kind of exercise and goals you have in mind might take a little different approach than general run-of-the-mill weight loss strategies. I second the recommendation for featherweights too. Also, please come down to the Operation Take 5-10 thread in Maintainers. We have some pretty impressive athletic type folks in there, swimmers, triathletes, runners (ahem, not quite to ennay or mkroyer's levels, but I get some mileage done myself).
ETA: Went back and reread....training for an ironman is pretty impressive. I wouldn't worry about weight loss per se right now, just fueling and training for the ironman. You may drop scale pounds or you may not, but from a biological perspective, change is pretty tough on our bodies. Weight loss is change. Ironman training is change. I'd do one at a time.
Now it might be interesting for you to track your body fat % during this time just to see what happens. Oohhh, let us know how the tri goes!