I have large hips, but I am also blessed with lower back fat/lovehandles. Which means I have a big, wide pancake butt! I hate it! The lovehandles help with the gapping at the waistband though, so I can thankfully fit into old navy pants at least.
That area has been slowly shrinking with my weight loss, but I have a feeling it is going to fight me to the bitter end. My strategy has been targeting my glutes with strength training so that at least I have a little more of a protrusion than a pancake