Calorie counter here.
Yes, I've tried other diets, and yes they worked. South Beach, Metabolic Research, MediFast... I lost weight. Six times in my adult life, I have "lost the weight I intended to lose." However, all that lost weight "found me" again, and brought a bunch of its friends!
Actually, SouthBeach, Atkins, Weight Watchers, etc... all those "diets" are just calorie counting diets, but they each use a different way to count the calories. Some by restriction or elimination of certain foods.
So I have finally learned that counting the calories is the way to go. Simple. But not always easy, because OMG I love to eat!!!!
I don't adhere to a dead-set "X" number of calories every day because I like to eat different things sometimes. But in general, I make sure to keep my calorie count between 1400 - 1600 per day. I log everything on FitDay. If I happen to eat 1605 calories one day, I don't sweat it or fret it. I eat what I like, and most of it is raw foods (salads, fruits) and processed foods (I'm a big fan of the Healthy Choice Cafe Steamers frozen meals.) I have treats/desserts every day, I simply work them into my caloric count. My current fave is two scoops No-Sugar-Added Vanilla Ice Cream (made w/Splenda) and fresh cut strawberries & a dollop of real whip cream. Yummy!!
I enjoy whatever I want on special occasions such as birthdays or weddings or my anniversary. I don't "count" those calories; I stick to my usual diet, but
I watch those portion sizes. When I go on vacation (which is rare) I do the same.
I also exercise, but I do what I enjoy doing and I do it for FITNESS, not weight loss. I love to swim; I have a pool & live in a hot climate, (10 minutes to the beach) so I swim a great deal during the April - October months. Otherwise I enjoy lifting weights (2x a week) and walking & biking. Sometimes I do yoga or an exercise DVD.
And you know what else? I FINALLY GET IT. This is my diet. This is my fitness plan. I cannot slack off either when I reach my goal. Maintenance requires me to stick to it... FOREVER. And that's OK, because honestly, I'm tired of the lose/gain/lose/gain/lose/gain merry-go-round.