Beautybooty....
Bless your heart!!! It can all be SO confusing! There is SO MUCH information out there.... and a doggone good bit here at 3FC, too!!
The one thing I keep reminding myself is that I KNOW MY BODY better than anyone. I know what I like, what I don't like, what works for me, & what doesn't. Always remember that what works for Sally might not work for you. And what works for you might not be the thing that works for me. But that's why we're all here! - to learn from each other! - to try different things! - to find that ONE (or 2 or 3 or 4...) trick(s) that make losing weight easier & healthier.
For instance, I do best when I watch my portion size & enjoy ANY FOOD I WANT. To me, that's much easier than having more food of something I don't really enjoy.
I had a chocolate craving around 11:30 this morning. Instead of getting crazy & having TOO MUCH, or driving myself crazy & having NONE.... I chose a tiny little one-bite serving size of a 3-Muskateers bar. SATISFIED ME!
Now, some other people can't do that... if they have ONE little bite, they'll have another & another & another, & just binge.
I noticed that in your postings (in this thread) you haven't said what you DRINK. Don't forget, that unless you're drinking water or no-calorie soda, you are also ingesting calories that way.
By the way, 13 pounds are GONE! YAY! - and why are they gone?
Because YOU ARE DOING IT!!!!