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Originally Posted by tootoot
thank you ladies
YP i know what you mean about how you " feel" ........thing is i still feel very fat, i cant think of myself as slimmer, i dont know why, maybe because i spent so long being fat, even when i look in a mirror i still see myself as very fat
we have new staff at work and every one of them say - Kim you are no where near fat, then i have to tell them but yes i am, i think thats where a class comes in handy as you have the psyche side of the fat talked about too
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I think part of the reason I feel "thin" is because I'm the thinnest I've been for about 10 years. I'm 27 now, so pretty much the thinnest since I stopped growing. (or did I ever stop growing - maybe that was the problem!). Anyway, my BMI is about 31.7 now, so it's not too far off the magic 30 mark (it started off at over 38). I feel so much better than I have done in recent memory that I can really feel the difference.
And I bought size 16 jeans and top in Debenhams sale today, which also convinces me I'm nowhere near as fat as I used to be! (they just about fit by the way, I didn't just buy them on the off chance...)
I suppose it varies from person to person, and it helps that I'm generally positive and optimistic, focussing on the good things rather than the fact that I am undoubtedly still overweight. Or at least I focus on the good things until I see a photo of me...