Hi all!
Thanks so much for making me feel so welcome!!! You all are so laid-back and just doing things in the right way -- not continually "starting over", but picking up and going forward. I admire that!
My DH works for a HUGE corporation and we went to their Christmas Dinner last night. It was a buffet, and the food was not good at all. I had some dessert after dinner and let it go at that.
I would like to put in my two cents worth about WLS (weight loss surgery). Unless the patient is willing to change their eating habits, the surgery is doomed to failure. If the habit of putting the wrong (or too much) food in one's mouth isn't corrected, no amount of surgery is going to help because it doesn't address the real problem.
I'd considered it, then read as much as I could. Knowing how my food problem works told me that the surgery would not help. Once I get in control of why the wrong stuff gets TO my mouth, the weight loss is easy. For me, they'd have to staple my mouth, not my stomach
Treated myself to a Richard Simmons Lose Weight and Celebrate kit I found on ebay for $20. I've always liked his videos (at 280 or so pounds, his videos are some of the few gentle enough not to "do me in" before I see results

) and the FoodMover echoes both the old Weight Watchers Exchange program (which worked very well for me) and the American Diabetic Association exchange program. I have to write down or note what I eat or I simply don't remember. Between this forum and my meetings, I can easily stay on track.
Again, thanks for the thumbs-up. It meant volumes!