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Old 11-26-2005, 02:14 AM   #16  
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That's better Holly. Like the new deck.

Saturday afternoon here and I am getting ready to go to a friends place for their Christmas dinner with friends. I understand we are barbequing. But what we are barbequing I have no idea. I need to get some wine and some flowers for the hostess. No the wine is for me and since I am driving a bunch of small bottles will do the trick. What I don't drink I bring home.

It's been a warm day, busy mostly as well. House is cleaned (again) - really don't know where all the washing and cleaning comes from. I blame the cat!! Couldn't possibly be me creating all the mess.

Food has been sparse owing to the upcoming, aforementioned barbecue. I can afford to eat a good plateful tonight.
Water has been a bit sparse, but I am getting through it. I will be taking some with me tonight as well and alternating with the wine.
Exercise - well I went to Body Balance and have done the abs/ crunches.
All in all I'm calling it a wrap.

Catch you all tomorrow.
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Old 11-27-2005, 01:11 AM   #17  
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Hi Everyone,
Sorry I haven't posted. My guests left early yesterday morning and arrived home safely - said the trip was a breeze with light traffic. I started on one of my promised projects which was to transfer over stuff from my current computer to my new one. I thought it would take one evening - silly me. 5 years with this computer and I have amassed a whole load of things. It's its own project just cleaning, arranging and transfering. I worked on it all yesterday and today and I'm only about half done. I am taking up DH's desk space and network connection for his computer and he's getting rather antsy about getting his computer back. I had hoped to get this finished, my Christmas letter and cards done, do the laundry, a bit of groceries and get the tree up by the end of the day tomorrow. Don't think that's all going to happen. And I am overdue for exercising too.

The only good thing about sitting here is that it's giving my leg a chance to rest up. I will be calling a regular doctor on Monday for an appointment.

You have all been quite the chatty bunch. Will be hard catching up with all of you. I'm sorry but I have to cut this short - it's after midnight and I'm back in the mode of getting to bed way too late and getting up too late in the mornings and wasting the day away. It's a very breezy night - the weather is warming up again - 47 one day 70 two days later, no wonder we are sick. We're supposed to get storms tomorrow. Even poor kitty is nervous outside. She is crying to come in the house and the best I could do was to spend 10 minutes outside petting her and trying to get her to calm down. She has been sitting on the chair ever watchful to the yard for the last 45 minutes. I feel bad leaving her there but if she were to cry out, DH would be at her side in a minute.

Anyway, I hope to get back on tomorrow evening and catch up with you all...
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Old 11-27-2005, 08:46 AM   #18  
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Angry 3fc what is going on????

I am not getting any e-mails and my smileys don't work! boo hoo!!!
Shad~ I couldn't be more happy for you and your debt free plan!!! Congratulations to you!!! I might be debt free by 30000! Loved Mooz's letter. Have read it before. It's very much how I live my life ....when I'm in a good mood that isHope the BBQ was good....I could smell it over here! We can make a date to call any weekend you want. The kids tie up the line a lot with games. We joined Pogo.com's club and earn badges etc. It's been a lot of fun and good time spent together.

Happy~ Poor kitty! At least someone loves her though. Good luck with the PC. I love your avatar!! I was cracking up for a few minutes. Lovely way to start my day! Now I will go find something for me!Sorry about the leg and wish you luck with a new dr. I hope you get some relief with him and good advice.

Holly~ thanks for the pictures! I love the deck and it was nice to have a peek into your life! How goes the Xmas Avon-ing? Hope you make tons of $$$$$$$!!!!!
No snow here yet....the big storm passed us by!!!

Yesterday I got the Xmas spirit from Hotcupojava and got out my ornaments. The little tree is up and decorated. I even did a wee bit of Flylady in the closet and tossed old/unused stuff out. Xmas carols on the pc, Xmas cartoons on the dvd, tinsel going on the 3' tree......it just doesn't get any better than that. But....It was a toss up between the pc and Xmas and the Xmas Spirit won out.
I am learning moderation. Can't use the arms for everything all day long. I think I am feeling good enough to go shopping. I will do next to nothing today and see what the Monday morning brings. Jen left a message under my door that she wants me to spend the day with them. Popcorn and more dvds!
Well Chickies I must go and eat breakfast and get dressed and fed. Have a great day.
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Old 11-27-2005, 08:57 AM   #19  
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I can use one of their animated avatars but it won't let me upload one of mine. Maybe a new rule?! I also checked and I am subscribed......I'll give them some time to get all the kinks out from this last transformation. TTFN
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Old 11-27-2005, 09:15 AM   #20  
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Mel~ maybe when I grow up I will learn moderation too.

I slept til 8:45. I laid down in bed a watched the tube last night from 8-11. I was toompooped to move. Kinda enjoyable really.
Curch at 10. The kids are doing the whole service for the first advent sunday and singing in Latin. The kids are ages 3-9. Pretty amazing! I am going back to the market. if it is slow. I will leave my stuff and come home and putter and then go back and pack up later.
2nd coffee done. Time to go get beautiful.
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Old 11-27-2005, 05:19 PM   #21  
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I'll swear I posted yesterday morning giving all the details of the bbq on Saturday night. However, I can't find it. I did have problems with the smilies and buttons on the first day after the upgrade but they fixed themselves by the following day. Suzanne put a note on the forum help to explain one way to solve the problem - it's to do with old cookies and new cookies. Yeah right.

Saturday's bbq went well. Lots of food. Bit of a fall down on the sweet chili cream cheese dip but I had a small piece of steak, a chicken tenderloin on a skewer (satay style) huge plate full of salad and veges - passed on the dessert and refused the chocolate. The chocolate was a close run thing as I love the Belgian Guylian choc truffles. I took along a piccolo bottle of Lindauer champers which was very dry so there was no difficulty sticking to one glass. I came home around 11pm and watched the footy from Scotland which finished at 3.00am. Woke up yesterday feeling extremely blah and sore in the gut - obviously too much food and too little sleep. Went to the gym and woke myself up, didn't feel like eating until around 3.oopm then ate everything in sight. Luckily I hadn't shopped and keep a boring refrigerator so there wasn't a lot of damage I could do. I worked in the yard until a storm sent me inside and the cat ran under the bed and wouldn't come out. It was a real doosey this one. Lots of rain, thunder, lightning etc. Some damage done north of the city, but none down our way. I gave up trying to do anything thing and went to bed for siesta.

Poor little kitty Happy. Could you not have put her in the garage with some newspaper etc just to help her out of the weather. I know she has a basket on the terrace. Hope that knee comes right soon. What a pain. Glad to hear the visitors got home safe and well. I didn't realise they were driving. I just figured they were flying. Never presume Shad. It wumps you everytime.

Hiya Mel, glad to hear that things are coming right slowly. And very pleased to hear that you are not overdoing it at this stage. Nice thing that the kids are coming to visit and to make sure you are okay and then they get to play on the computer.

Holly - church sounds nice with the kids. Happy puttering.

I'm trying to sort out the Christmas dinner for this year. I think it is going to have to be the week before Christmas because of my going to Adelaide for Christmas itself. Therefore I will have to start organising the brothers by this week. The bossy sister effect comes back into being.

Better go do something. Hard to believe it is nearly the end of November and weigh and measure is just around the corner AGAIN.
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I managed two goes at the WATP four mile and two of the 3mile ABs so altogether, which is astounding given my track record, I have gone 14 miles this week

Mel-good to have you back! Glad to hear you are pacing yourself and not allowing the duties to overwhelm you. Christmas at the malls is so much fun even when you aren't shopping, everything is so bright and beautiful.

Shad-Cool barbecue menu. Steak and chicken, your friends know how to please. Of course I want some Chili dip now I send little Sunday a dose of catnip to help her through the aftershock of the storm, brutal on their emotions all the noise.

Happy-how many dozens of cookies are in your freezer now? Did your sister take them all with her? Did your mom and you do some prowling of decorating stores and plot the next colour advance on whatever area isn't sorted yet? I'm so sad for your little kitty, it is just going to get colder and I suppose those raccoons are going to start coming around and making mischief.

Holly-How many snow bunnies did you help build. Any snow Tiggers? Any snow bears? I had an entire zoo last year Our snow was only here long enough to tease the kids, the higher points north and south of us still have a foot. They are bummed. Good luck with the Avon sales, you must be scrambling to get all the orders in and together before Christmas. Your home looks terrific, I bet you spend tons of time on the patio this summer didn't you?

Tig-How wonderful, landscaping! I want to do that too only thing stopping me is money Flagstones will look great, will we get to see a picture after you finish? I really enjoy seeing the gardens and planning other people do. Nice to have you posting.

Hello readers! Are you gearing up for Christmas? Got your tree yet?
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Hiya Meadow! We have rain today. The snow is now slush.
Shad, your BBQ sounds lovely.
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Good morning ladies,
A cool and rainy day here. Didn't sleep well last night, only about 3 hours total which will make for a very long and tiring day back to work after vacation. Strong winds last night and the threat of tornadoes coming out of Ceejay's direction. (Hope you're ok ) Guess down here spring AND autumn brings the threat of bad weather. I can't believe vacation is over already. Wanted to put the tree up yesterday but I can't find the most important thing - the stand. Went through all the boxes marked Christmas in the house, more to search in the garage I'm told by DH. Guess I have TOO MUCH Christmas stuff. Of course the guys did a lousy job packing and it's not unusual to find a large box marked Christmas with only 1 actual Christmas item in it. Chances are my tree stand is in a box marked something else. I will give it one day's look tonight and if I can't find it, I'll buy another - don't have the time to go through 20 boxes on a wild goose chase.

As for Kitty, she is on a covered porch out of the wind and rain. She has her soft cat bed in which we've put 2 - 3 warm blankets and we also cover her at night. My mom said she didn't cover her own kids that well and HEY - isn't that my blue blanket that you have on the cat bed Laughed at mum and told her we got her a new, softer, warmer blanket - kitty gets the old stuff. I did try putting her just inside the garage door one night when it was storming but she'd have none of it. I think she wants a quick escape route in case she doesn't like one of the roaming critters. DH wants to let her "just inside the house" into the kitchen but I told him that we can't - if we do go back north for the holiday I think it would be more cruel to let her in now and then leave her locked out when we go away. She is quite warm and dry, trust me.

Meadow, 14 MILES this week! Awesome lady!!!! And I didn't make any more Christmas cookies and probably won't. Half of the leftovers from last week went with my sister and I ate the other half which was about 12 or so which is why I can't have any more cookies around here tempting me.

Shad, my family drove rather than fly as $200 or so in gasoline was much cheaper than $1200 in air fare. The rates always go up during the holidays. I didn't realize that you were up all hours of the day and night following the footy. What a fan you are! What's with going to Adelaide this year, I thought the family was mostly around you now? I hear you on the end of the month drawing near, geez it was just Halloween last week, wasn't it????

Mel, your house is sounding quite festive. Are you singing along with the carols yet? Glad the snow has passed you by. Stay warm and cozy my friend.

Painter, hope you are having fun with the DD's visit. Has she gone back now and into the hum drum routine again?

Tig, my family loves my house here. I wish I could convince them to come down this way where you can get more house for the dollar, but it's hard to pry people away from their roots -- heaven knows it took me long enough. Hope you had fun in the garden - be careful, that flagstone is pretty and heavy too. Don't strain yourself. You Thanksgiving sounded very cozy.

Ceejay, hope you have enjoyed your Thanksgiving trip.

Holly, that pic of the lane to your friend's farm is gorgeous. Love the autumn colors.

Well, it's past time for me to be in the shower and off to the office again. Back to remembering all the things I put off before vacation and said I'd do today. But first I have to remember my passwords - always a danger after some time off Have a good day ladies...

for all and a hello to Teel, Linus, Nae and all the rest of the chicks.
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and a school day for all the big kids!! Just 2 preschoolers today til noon. Huuby is at work. He wasn't sure he would go because of the rain. I am letting the fire go out because it is +6C(42F) and feeling muggy in here.
I am in desperate need of a shower but will wait til after the bus.
I did a fair bit of tidying yesterday evening. I should be able to vacuum today.
4th day of hockey in a row with a practise at 4:30. The kids played 3 fab games over the weekend. Much improved. DS was quite the star.
Food has been willy nilly but not horrifc in content or amounts. Just not in the forefront of thought. I haven't weighed in a few weeks. I was getting disappointed by the same number while really trying to lose.
I sent a friendly email and pics to an old friend last week and haven't heard back. Every couple of months I try. It makes me feel sad.

Storytime this morning. I need some ideas for myslef for reading. Entertaining yet with a little substance and thought provocation. The Mark Twain Letters for book club is interesting but quite heavy.Getting thru it bit by bit.

Happy~ i love your avatar, i smile a squinty kitty smile right back at it.We have shop cats and they they are mostly outdoors in the summer but do sleep inside in cooler temps. We have a kitty hole in the shed door.We have insulation stored upstair and that is where they sleep. Cats are very resourceful. Try not to worry too much.
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Hi girls....how are you all enjoying our new home? I LOVE the swimming pool...it looks absolutely gorgeous! Well done Shad...you have done us proud again!! Thank you!!!

Well I am sorry to say I have sad news about Bob the builder...he spent the last 5 days of his life in the local hospice where he died on Friday evening at 20:30hrs. I feel quite stunned which is potty because I knew death was on it's way sooner rather than later. I will miss him, and so will Holly. She loved him to bits...

Hmmmn my smilie link is not working today so you will just have to imagibne lots of little emoticons running around all over the post!!

The weather has calmed down a lot here in Suffolk although it is still bad with sleet and snow and ice over in the west of the country around Devon and Cornwall. Here it is just grey and miserable.

I think I have given up with trying to lose weight this side of Christmas... I have not dared getting on the scales since I got back home....I am being fairly sensible though.

At the end of the week I have a wedding to play for...in a very small cold Suffolk church...I must remember to take a flask with hot water and a sachet of cup-a-soup!!! Before that I have hairdresser appointment tomorrow , someone from church is coming for coffee on Wednesday and on Thursday I have a blood test appointment followed by Holly's hair cut in the afternnoon...Friday is music practice for the wedding and then Saturday is the actual occassion!! Busy week!!

How is everyone's Christmas preperations coming along??I cannot believe there are just 4 weeks to go till the big day...I had better get those cards written!!!
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Teel~ I am deeply sorry for the passing of Bob. He was good friend for you and Holly. My thoughts are with you.

I am happy to see you posting.Take time for yourself in this busy week.


My thoughts are a bit melancholy today. Might be the rain! LOL!
I have been journalling a bit about mixed feelings about my family. I saw my Dad briefly on Sat when he stopped into the market to pick up mom's Avon order. I was struck by how handsome and fit and happy he is.
These are this morning's thoughts....
I hate that the fam takes up energy. It is worse than it has been for a long time as my kids get older and I have memories of my own childhood. I get so conflicted because my folks are decent people. The are narcisstic , small minded in many ways ,but good people.
I get tired of being misunderstood and disliked.
I think I am pretty wonderful.
The whole convo at the dinner table last year at christmas was about how it was impossible for any online relationships to be real.Every blog/group etc was a scam and everyone online was some deviant trying to get something from you. I came home and read journal/forum posts all night. I know it is their loss to be so fearful and jaded but it hurts that once again I was the family freak who actually believed I had an online friend or even friendS( egads more than one person who likes me).
Sad.

The preschoolers just wanted to stay home and watch cartoons. kinda nice. I am off to putter.
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((((HUGS)))) Don't allow anyone to take away your spirit or energy
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The whole convo at the dinner table last year at christmas was about how it was impossible for any online relationships to be real.Every blog/group etc was a scam and everyone online was some deviant trying to get something from you.
I suppose if I step back and imagine myself in someone else's shoes - someone who is not as computer comfortable as we are...

What do you see on the news? Stories of perverts and child molesters starting conversations with kids in chat rooms to lure them to prey on them.
In fact, there has been alot of bad press in general about chat rooms and people's behavior and ability to be anything they want to conjure up in cyberspace. So given that, if I was not computer savy, I might just feel that people online are creepy and out for something. But like you, I know better now.

I still find it hard to fathom that some people have met and dated via chat rooms on the Internet, but it happens alot. When the main office of my last job relocated from New York to Chicago, one of the girls searched online and sight unseen, agreed to room with a GUY she'd only met from a want ad on the Internet. that one BLEW ME AWAY. I said T, you're from NEW YORK for cryin' out loud - what if he was Chester the Molester? How could you be so trusting (and she was a tough NY Italian that you wouldn't mess with). Guess she felt she could hold her own. It did work out, but I would have argued against her sanity.

I do believe you can develop friendships and a support network through the right kinds of online mediums - much the same as you could with old fashioned "pen pals" that your folks might be more comfortable with.

One thing I've learned - don't try to argue or reason or sometimes even discuss with parents and grandparents or people 20 years older than you - particularly if they feel strongly about something. They don't listen and you just feel deflated yourself. I guess that's where the "pick your battles" comes in - not to fight but how much will you try to defend your position.

I've had to diffuse several of these heated family conversations - just easier to steer clear of hot topics with the family and stick to safe ones like oooh that jello mold is so pretty.
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These are the same people who boycott bottled water because they assume people on the assembly line spit in it.The cup is definitley 1/2 empty.
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