Well Angie--When did you sneak in there? You have good idea about the decorating. I also have some shopping to do and getting a tree....since when have I been so busy?? I may collapse trying to keep up! Ok...off I go, just wanted to say hello to Angie!! HELLO!!

Hiya ladies~

Chatty bunch today aren't we?

Jane~thanks for the tip. I think you had mentioned epinions here once before and I forgot about it. I will definitely check it out. I am really wanting one of those because it opens up like a griddle (couldn't think what it was called earlier-DUH!) and I like that. Plus it is like the GF grill. So for the tip.

Marti~what fun to decorate two houses. At least if you go to grandpas there will be a lot of help so you wouldn't be doing it all yourself. But I can totally understand the stress of decorating two houses. I agree with Angie, she has a good idea. Maybe you can drop in with an ornament for grandpa or some cookies and just visit with everyone for a few mintues and explain that you, James and Jhanai are decorating the house. I am sure they would understand. We went to see Christmas with The Kranks, there was nothing else on that we wanted to see, well maybe that movie with Nicholas Cage. I think it looks like it might be interesting. We did see some previews for some upcoming movies that look funny. Oh, the snow melted before 10:00 which I was glad for. They usually keep the streets cleaned pretty good but they can't get everything and I swear, it seems the worse the weather is, the worse the people drive.

Ellen, Ellen, Ellen~you are to funny lady and I appreciate that. Oooo, you can bring some pumpkin cheesecake over any time, that sounds so delicious and I have never had it. The stew was good, as was the cornbread. Unfortunately there was no dessert. We hardly ever have dessert unless it is a special occasion.

Katy~love the avatar, Leigh is such a cutie! I miss shopping at Cost Plus, haven't been to one since leaving CA. Sounds like you will be busy soon enough with the decorating yourself. I can smell the fresh greens now. I was thinking about going to a Christmas tree farm and see if I could get a few scraps to mix with a couple of things just to get that fresh smell.

Mindee~well, I too agree with the others, $300 a week is definitely better than nada, especially since jobs are so hard to come by. I have been looking for a job forever it seems. But I do wish you all well and hope that Tommy finds the perfect job for him.

Angie~I do hope your friend Becky is okay. Chest pains always scare me to death, you never really know what it is. Emergency rooms are the pits! When I took DD we were there five hours, but I don't know of any walk in clinics around here. I know they had them in CA all over and it was kind of nice. Can you tell I am missing CA?

Okay, I hope I didn't miss anyone-too many posts today. Hi to everyone else.

I will definitely try for Chat tomorrow ladies. I have a pretty easy day tomorrow since I bought some groceries today, no need to head to wally world. I am going to finish up with the mess I have in the living room. Been doing a little bit each day. Finished up the laundry today and just need to mop the bathrooms. The rest of the day is mine, all mine. Anyhoo, nighty night ladies.

psssst , I am on the phone with Rocky. I will type real soft so he won't know I ain't listening to him...lol

I feel better. I think it was the turkey that I ate.

Love both Katy's and Mindee's picture thing. You guys are so smart- wish I could figure out how to do Gaby.

Thanks for the encouragement!!!!! I just feel so selfish sometimes.

Thanks Cristi - what you wrote was sweet.

hmmm, I better go......lol. Sorry. I am going Thursday morning to the coast and file my response.

Really tired and a touch of depression- trying to perk up....

chat later ;0

Hi there Everyone
I thought I would pop in before I climb into bed ,and see what everyones doing hopefully everyone is having a great night ,but its late .so go to bed Actually I'm confused about what time it is everywhere, I'm confused what time it is here to Hi Cristi I will send you the recipe for pumpkin cheesecake if you would like it ,I've been making it for years for Christmas Dessert and I have never had anyone turn it down.we love it and Christmas Dinner isn't complete without it. I sure hope you like it as much as we do. Angie Hi how was the grilled cheese ? I'm sorry to hear about Becky's chest pains I really hope it isn't anything serious,glad to know that she had the appropriate tests done immediately.How is Brandon doing .hopefully he is healing ,does he have a lot of pain still? Hi Marti my thighs have become a little too familiar with each other as well.just a little to close for comfort , you know what I mean,I liked the comment about separating them and letting them be alone too funny. Hi Ellen You really should go to bed , before you drive all of these girls crazy with your endless chattering .enough said good night everyone till tomorrow

Just a quick "hi" to all. It is cold here, and not at all good vacation weather.

Might I say something about the grills? I love my GF and it has the temp. control. BUT they now are making them with grills that pop off and go in the dishwasher. Wish I had waited, they are hard to clean sometimes. I also like the ides of the ones that lay open flat like a griddle. I just don;t need any more kitchen gadgets to try to store.

I am going to try to make one of the chats this week. I am thinking of you all. Have had a tough few days with family problems and need some good wishes!

Stopping in before I head off to bed!

What a busy night tonight was!! They had e-mailed everyone asking for volunteers to stay over....I was to achy and whiney so I didn't. I pretty much pretended I never got the e-mail......(oooohhh so bad!)They were catching up though so I don't feel too bad.

Cristi--I think you're right (and so is Angie) about going to grandpa's to decorate. The thing is....there are some members of my family who take control of a whole situation (which takes the fun away)and that is what is bothering me. So I will figure it out as I get to that day. So what did you think of the movie you went and saw? Was it worth going to? Very happy to hear that the snow was not in your way of driving!! (must make sure my friends here are SAFE!)

Susan--You need to realize, that no matter what the situation is, when you have kids, you are always going to feel selfish or guilty be it something major happening or something very minor . It's just a motherly thing wanting to make sure everything is right. And you have to know that your feelings are just as important! When your happy, your children are happy. So my thoughts are w/you during this time and I'm sure everything will be alright. In fact I know it will. I'm so happy you found Rocky!! Give him a hug from us ok.....(even if it's just over the phone!)

Ellen--You are a funny lady!! Did you tuck yourself in tight? Give yourself a peck on the cheek? As for my thighs...I think a separation is a good move on my part....now if only I can talk them into it. Also, I have to try and keep my behind from smiling so big!! The more weight I gain the bigger the smile!

Sue--How is the weather? Are you enjoying being in Cali? Is that where you're at? (My mind is wondering so much....to much going on and I can't keep up!) Well I'm sending you some Good Wishes your way! I hope everything is alright. (((((((Good Wishes for Sue))))))) Pop in again soon when you have time.


Ok...I think I better get to bed before I collapse. I'm not that tired, just achy and that makes me whiney and cranky...and who wants to have that around for company? I'll check in for chat in the morning....the latest I'll check in should be 11:30.......but if I'm not on by then.....PLEASE! Come find me!!

Night girls

Good morning, oh Chatty Ones,

Katy - love the idea of the fresh greenery. Like Cristi, I can smell it already... I'll be glad when you get your Christmas break and we can hear from you more often. Love your avatar!!!!!!!

Marti - oic about going to Grandpa's Sat. You're right to avoid that if it's going to put a damper on your day at all. You could go on Sunday when the others are all gone and let Jhanai and him have a nice visit then, lol. Hope the cramps are gone today.

Mindee - not to pick on Tommy, but, like the others have said, 300 bucks a week sure beat 0 dollars a week! Hopefully he has a lead on something else real soon. Didn't know he had trouble with his knees... is it something serious?

Ellen - wow, exercising for an hour and a half would kill me, lol. Hope you get your TV hooked up soon, although the Christmas music would be very uplifting, too. I don't mind driving in the snow since I've been doing it since I was 16. Most vehicles are 4WD now, which makes it so much safer. Ice... now that's another story. Thank you for all your kind words.

Angie - so is Becky ok?? Also, give us an update on your other patient too, ok?

Cristi - yep, I did mention epinions before. I love that place, and have looked up stuff I already own just for the fun of it, lol. Btw, how's your arm? Oh yeah, I keep forgetting to mention to you... remember when, awhile back, you asked about my skin sagging? I forgot to say what pitiful shape my boobs are in! They point south and are a fright! If I get the money I want to have them lifted. Wonder how much that costs?? Maybe epinions can look that up for me, lol.

Sue - hope you make chat today! Hope I do, too, lol.

Susan - nothing wrong with multi-tasking, lol.

It has been rainy and very, very windy here. No snow yet. But at least the sun is going to shine today. One more thing to be thankful for.

See you later in chat.....

It's going to be a beautiful day in the neighborhood today. Even after the very cold start this morning. Thinking I will go wash my car and get that icky sand/dirt/salt mixture off of it once it warms up. When we lived on the dirt road after a rain and the road was dry I went to the car wash to get the caked up dirt/mud off, in the cold and would be slipping and sliding because the water was freezing as I was washing. Only did that a few times, it was too cold. Just can't stand a dirty car.

Marti~I see...isn't it terrible how some people do that? Although, I think I probably wouldn't mind. That way I could just sit back and enjoy the others company. I'm glad to hear your grandpa is keeping hisself busy. When my grandma passed, my grandpa ran away from everything and everyone and when he came back and finally faced what happened it was hard on him and he gave up-didn't do anything and I thought that was so sad. The movie...I thought it was okay. I have to say though, Jamie Lee Curtis was driving me crazy with all her screaming. And I loved the N Reeky, that cracked me up, it was supposed to be Enrique. Not sure why that cracked me up when I saw it but it did.

Ellen~I would love your recipe. Pumpkin cheesecake sounds so good and I love cheesecake, just don't have it very often. May just turn into a new christmas dessert for us too. After Thanksgiving and all that cooking I am definitely going to cook less for Christmas, even though it didn't seem like I cooked much this time.

Jane~oh, I too would love to have the boobies lifted. I would love to not have to wear a bra but if I don't I swear by the time I am 50 they will be hanging down to my knees. Not a pretty sight. Thanks for the heads up on epinions. I found the stinking thing and now know what it is called, HB Meal Maker Express. I kept seeing the commercial and looked in Target and Wal-Mart but didn't see any. Almost forgot, love your avatar also. How the heck do you keep the hat on Molly? We have done that to Ernie, put a santa hat and also the antlers and he goes nuts trying to get them off. He doesn't even like a sweater on when it's cold. Did I tell you guys how he loves playing in the snow? He's like a little kid, can't get enough of the white stuff.

Susan~ditto what Marti said. I can't tell you how many times I felt selfish and quilty and for no reason. When the kids dad passed I lived for them, I did everything for them for years. Two years after I tried dating and they were happy but I don't think I was ready. Of course it is different when there is an ex involved. Finally realized that I needed to do something for myself and I don't think anyone can be happy if The Mommy isn't happy. So put those thoughts out of your mind missy and be happy, that's an order!

Hi Sue~I like the idea of the removable grids, just seems easier to clean. And of course the lay flat griddle, that's what I like about the HB. Sorry the weather is not cooperating for ya. Does seem odd to have icky weather in Vegas, just seems like the sun should be shining all the time.

Well, gues I best get going. Going to finish up in the living room today, clean the bathrooms and run to Barnes and Noble and Michaels real fast. Oh, and go wash my filthy car. I will try and make chat, don't see anything keeping me from it.

Have a good day!

Morning Ladies
Today is a sad day my baby Snookie passed away here at home, I sat up with her early this morning ,she seemed to not be feeling well and before we could do anything she passed away.I'm so thankful that my son was here ,it would have been to hard to face this alone.I'm not feeling so well right now ,so I will try and talk later ,

Hi Ladies -
It's Wednesday - I will try to remember to check in on chat today at 11 (Oregon time) The only thing that could interfere is if my DD is high-maintenance or I just plain ferget I wish my brain could get a memory upgrade - too much data, not enough disk space.

Jana - I am with you, honey, on the plastic surgery. When I am at goal, should that day ever come, I want a tummy tuck. My girls are fine, not much there to be sagging. Check out this site ( www.awfulplasticsurgery.com) for what you definitely want to avoid

Cristi - what Jana said about epinions - I have also used it when shopping around - that's where I went to research exercise equipment and ened up with my folding stepper. It's a great site - but don't think they do plastic surgeons...but you never know

Sue - hope things are looking up in CA - when you mentioned a tough time, I immediately thought of your DD and her divorce - I am saying a little prayer and maybe I'll get to chat with you today

Susan - Yay - for getting response filed - that will be a huge relief. I imagine no one will have time to bug you again through the courts until January.... are you pushing for mediation? If you do, that will most likely unearth Mike's druggie problems.... I am so happy for you and Rocky.... Just remember..this time next year...this time next year

Marti - Hope to see you in chat today. Sorry about the toxic relatives... I have a little o'that in my family. I would wait and show up late after it's all done, then no one can put me to work, or criticize my contributions, or you name it. Usually I show up with alcohol of some kind, then everyone is happy Don't know if that would work in your case.....I am generally of the opinion that the holidays should be fun and making time for people... so when stuff starts happening that interferes with my grand plan, I "Just Say NO"

Ellen- No - I'm not off turning into a Swan! that made me laugh... I think those gals end up looking like drag queens, but if that's what they want, then more power to them. My plastic surgery aspirations are very minimal...just want all this loose skin off my tummy. No point in doing it 'till the weight is off.

Hi to everyone else - I'm off to work on our budget and get some exercise...will do my darndest to get into chat at 11

Ellen - missed your post before - I am so sorry about Snookie. My thoughts and prayers are with you on this sad day

Hey Girls!!

Okay let me catch up..everyone has done so much chatted since I last checked in!!!

ROSIEKATE: What a cutie Leigh is!!!! You're so lucky!! The weather here is rainy and windy today....its that time of the year ya know!!!

JANE: I love the picture....is that your pup??? What a darling!!

MARTI: As far as xmas gifts for DBF, he wants a PDA $350.00, and a couple other things...He'll probably get the pda, new bath robe, some stocking stuff and some new tshirts!! He always has a big list, anytime of the year!!

MINDEE: Sorry to hear you and Tommy are having a rough time of it!! Hang in there, it will get better!!

Well I've been waiting 2 1/2 weeks for a response for the doc on the "BABY" issue!! He finally called back today and left a message at my house, but when I try to call back..busy!!! So maybe I'll have some info later on!!! Probably wants to see us for more blood work!!!! .....sigh Going to get my hair cut and highlighted this afternoon...I need a pick me up!

HI to CRISTI, ANGIE, SUE, SUSAN, ELLEN and Kathy!!!!

Julie

((((((HUGS)))))) Ellen~I am so sorry to hear about Snookie. I hope that can be be some comfort in knowing that she is not suffering any more. I know it really never helps because we want them to still be with us. But she is now resting in peace with her sister. I am glad also that your son was with you, and you take all the time you need. We are here for you when you need us.

Oooops! Forgot to say hi to Julie and Katy HI Julie and Katy

Julie~have a fun day being pampered. I so need a haircut.

Katy~darn, no plastic surgeons on epinions! What's a girl to do?

Well, thought I would check and see if anyone was here to chat and don't see anyone online-thought I saw Marti on, I see how ya are-don't want to chat with me eh?? Oh well maybe next week. Now you ladies have made it to where I HAVE to go do something! I did go get my car washed. I tried this place I have passed a zillion times but never went to, a laserwash-GREAT! Didn't have to get out and get my hands cold. Just sat in the car while it did its thing. Not sure why I never tried it before. Anyway...also went to Michaels and Barnes and Noble and now to clean, ugh! See ya

Ellen--So sorry to hear about your kitty!! Hugs to you!!!

Cristi--I was on chat this morning....around 11, we (me, Katy, Jane) chatted for an hour or so.....what time did you pop in? I would have loved to have chatted w/you too! Next time ok!

Julie--Hope you have good news about the baby issue. And I think going in to get a hair cut and color is a great way to get a pick me up!!

Jane--I'll have to check out epinions sometime. Never heard of it, only from here! Had a good chat this morning!

Katy--No alcohol at my grandpa's....would love to sometimes. But there are some family members who just don't know how to handle it so we don't bring it. Great chatting with you too!

Hello to everyone else.

I've been cleaning up my house (still) after chat. I've mopped my floors and then decided that I want my electric bill to not be so drastic and so I built a fire in the wood stove. Now my house is nice and cozy!! It is now time for me to get myself cleaned up and then relax before I go to work.

You all have a great Wednesday!!