WEDNESDAY: Today is Wednesday's Woes. Just shout out your troubles today, girls!
TUESDAY WRAPUP POINTS:
Mscat
Amanda

Heather

Susan
Sorry I posted early last evening, but I need to get more fans for the 2 offices. They each have tiny ac vents and direct sunlight in the afternoon so it was miserable sitting in my office and posting. I weinied out and did it early.
Jaymi: Ok, what the heck did you do to meatloaf that no one would eat it?

It is a pretty easy thing to put together I think. As for corporal punishment, I did it but don't really do it now as I found with T that it plain doesn't work. I think you have to do what you feel is the best way to discipline, no matter what it is
BUT and this is the really hard thing, don't punish when you are at the temper losing point as you lose control that way. If you are a spanker, step back for a moment and regain your composure then punish. My dd sends dgs to his room and he hates it even though he has toys and whatnot in his room. I think if you find that your punishment does not deter them from repeating whatever they are doing, change it and find something else. You have little children a bit smaller than my dgs I think and sometimes something as small as a timeout works if they don't like to have to sit still. Usually you go by the age of the child, say a 2 year old gets a 2 minute time out etc. Now again, the hard part with this is consistency and taking the time to keep putting the child back in the chair when he gets out and resetting the clock explaining to them if they get up before the ding or whatever that it starts all over. This eventually works pretty well with most kids. I had a real pistol when she was young. When she would get spanked she would run out of the housing screaming so the neighbors thought we beat her to death. I remember the one and only time punishment worked and she was like 18. Her room was in the front of the house where visitors would see it and it was a pig sty. We had fought about it all the time and her dad got into it when I got no headway and told her to clean it up immediately. She smarted off and told him it was her private property and none of his business and took off out the door. BIG mistake. He took the door off her room. When she sashayed back in thinking she had won and found out ole dad wasn't giving her door back until her room was cleaned, she moved out!

(she is still a slob in her own home but that is her business now)
Carri: This too shall pass. It seems to have for me. You have been doing a spectacular job so just keep plugging along til cravings and what not pass.
MsCat: Good for you. Procrastination is not one of my many sins. Sometimes I wish it were. I am a work in progress!
Amanda: The pool!!!!!!! Ok I am waiting to hear you have conquered that one, girlie!
Susan: I know you will find work! You go girl!
Beth: Good to hear from you, we missed you here!
Cat: Have you gotten any sleep with the heat? Breeze? I don't believe us Memphians know that concept!
Julie: How is the belly holding up with all that wiggling yesterday???????
Off to start cleaning house. I want to get the upstairs except the vacuuming done early then I will get it done around 8 am or so and go out to the pool. I was out there around 1:30 pm yesterday with a ton of 50 sunblock on and the sun just a beatin down on me but did an hour and a half.
faye
